Marriage Radio: Helping Your Marriage

Navigating the festive season while dealing with the emotional turmoil of marital separation can seem like a mountainous feat. But here's a promise: by the end of this episode, you'll have a roadmap on how to not only survive this challenging season but also keep your sanity intact. Join us as we unpack the emotional roller-coaster that this season can thrust upon you and guide you on how to process these emotions healthily. Let's talk about that elephant in the room— the surge in divorce rates come January, and how you can dodge falling into that statistic. Ever wondered how lullabies can help you sail through a holiday season full of emotional upheaval? Discover how a simple bedtime routine can work wonders and why setting boundaries with your spouse during family gatherings is not just about self-preservation but also about prioritizing your children's well-being. Hear our take on the importance of open communication and compromise during these times. Yes, the holiday season can be toug

Ever wonder why certain behaviors can predict divorce with over 80% accuracy? Today, we unpack the mystery of one such behavior known as 'stonewalling', alongside the other three horsemen of the relationship apocalypse: defensiveness, criticism, and contempt. Our deep-dive into Dr. John Gottman's groundbreaking research at the Love Lab, reveals how these destructive behaviors can send a relationship spiraling downward. But it's not all doom and gloom! We also explore the antidote to stonewalling, offering real-life examples and practical steps to overcome it. Learn the importance of courageously pausing the conversation, taking the time to cool down, and process. Strengthen your relationships by understanding these patterns and making conscious efforts to change them. Let's journey together towards healthier, more fulfilling relationships.Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.Regardless of your situat

Ever felt like your marriage is on the brink and you're helpless? Today, we bring you a powerful conversation with Melody Oseguera, Director of Coaching at Marriage Helper, who stood for her marriage when the odds were stacked against her. Listen as she shares her journey of resilience, patience, and personal growth, which eventually led to the reconciliation with her husband, David. Hear about the emotional and practical challenges that she faced, from work-life balance and parenting disconnects to dealing with separation and limerence.In our chat with Melody, we delve into her experiences co-parenting during separation, and how she navigated the tumultuous terrain of her husband's limerence. She talks about the strain it put on their family, and how she maintained her beliefs and values during these trying times. Listen as we explore how Melody found hope in this chaotic period and how the Save My Marriage Program from Marriage Helper offered tools and support that helped restore equilibrium in he

Have you ever asked yourself if a broken marriage is beyond repair? Have you ever felt trapped in a negative mindset with no way out? Our guest today, Jared Pratt, Marriage Helper certified coach, takes us through his personal journey from a brink of a divorce to healing his marriage. His story is both raw and powerful, as he navigates through years of frustration, secrecy, and a turning point on a fateful Valentine's Day. Jared's experience is not just a testament of resilience; it's a clear example of how seeking support can make all the difference, even in the most challenging circumstances.Jared isn't just a story-teller; he's a Marriage Helper coach who lives by example. We dive deep into the world of cognitive behavior restructuring, exploring how understanding and owning your part of the conflict can lead to personal growth and healthier relationships. Jared talks passionately about the resources available at Marriage Helper, from membership to coaching. He emphasizes the impor

Ever grappled with the pain of infidelity, manipulation, or the aftermath of separation in your marriage? Are you seeking clarity and perspective to illuminate your path towards self-love and a healthier marriage? We have conversation with Cody Wambolt, a client representative at Marriage Helper, who shares the stories of those confronting these struggles and the transformations they've experienced. Stories of personal growth and transformation are at the center of our discussion. We unearth the journey of a woman who, despite enduring verbal abuse and demands for divorce, managed to turn her life around. The story unveils how understanding her husband's personality, learning to communicate more effectively, and making significant changes in her behavior, allowed her to not only impact her marriage but also her children and social and professional circles. This compelling account underscores the power of personal growth and how it can create ripples in all aspects of life.As we wrap up the episode,

What if the secret to a healthy and fulfilling marriage lies not in grand gestures or constant compromise, but in the very core of how we perceive ourselves? Join us as our CEO and resident psychology expert, Kimberly Beam Holmes, unravels the connection between self-esteem and marriage. Kimberly helps us understand the difference between self-esteem and self-worth, taking us through the seven areas of self-worth identified by researcher Jennifer Crocker. She emphasizes that only three of these areas - family support, virtue, and God's love - are healthy foundations for self-worth.Our deep-dive into self-esteem doesn't stop at theory. Kimberly demonstrates how self-esteem dynamics can play out in marriage, highlighting the potential harm when we rely on our spouses to fill our need for love and worth. This dependence may lead us into a cycle of altered behaviors and unfair expectations. Yet, there's hope. Kimberly shares insights from her dissertation research on how self-esteem levels can chan

Ready for the transformation of a lifetime? Strap in as we unveil the secrets of salvaging a marriage, even when it feels like you're the only one fighting. We'll guide you through a proven seven-step process, crafted from the lessons we've learned supporting thousands of couples through their marital ups and downs. Learn how to navigate the initial stages of this journey solo, arming yourself with clarity and calmness because you are the captain of your fate, the master of your marriage.As we dive deeper, get ready for a paradigm shift. We talk about the pivotal role of accountability and implementation in your behavior transformation. We'll explore the powerful weapon of forgiveness, and why it's vital for both you and your partner to stand on the battlefield of reconciliation together. To top it all off, we'll introduce you to our 'Save My Marriage' program designed to help you see visible, positive results in your marriage. So, join us in this journey of turning you

Ever felt the agonizing sting of infidelity in your marriage? Been crushed under the weight of betrayal and wondered if you could ever find solace or if your relationship could be salvaged? We've got you. In this enlightening conversation, we delve into the painful reality of adultery and guide you through pathways of personal healing and marriage restoration. We reveal how infidelity is, unfortunately, a common predicament in marriages, not just among individuals who approach us at Marriage Helper for advice.Shattering the misconception that an affair is a reflection of your inadequacy, we discuss how it often denotes your spouse's unfulfilled needs. We will explore how your healing lies in recognizing your personal strengths, understanding your contributions to the marital discord, and working on them. We also illuminate the often misunderstood aspects of post-affair reconciliation and trust rebuilding. Tune in as we walk you through the intentional process of forgiveness and healing, that can pot

What's happened to the sanctity of marriage? It seems today's world has shifted from commitment-based marriages to an era of 'expressive individualism' - but at what cost? Join us as we scrutinize this startling decline and the seismic societal shifts that have led us here. We're diving deep into the statistics, the causes, and the far-reaching implications of this change. Is it the independence of the 'me generation?' What about women's escalating roles in the workforce? We're questioning it all.The second half of our conversation turns the spotlight onto the fallout of this marriage recession. We're exposing the harsh realities of men losing touch with their children post-divorce and the alarming erosion of commitment in our increasingly self-centered society. But, there's hope! So, join us in this thought-provoking exploration and learn the tools you need to restore the foundations of family and commitment.Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriag

What if the one thing standing in the way of a healthier, happier marriage is our belief that people can't change? Join us as we flip this myth on its head. We take a deep dive into the reasons behind why people change and how to create an environment that encourages your spouse to evolve in your marriage. We highlight an intriguing case study that shows how our beliefs about someone, and the way we treat them, can significantly influence their behavior and potential for change. In the latter part of our chat, we explore the concept of behavior modification in the context of marriage. We discuss how behaviors that are rewarded tend to be repeated and how a lack of reward or negative consequences can discourage certain behaviors. But, instead of resorting to punishments, we suggest encouraging open conversations and rewarding desired behaviors. Listen to our insightful tips on how to foster meaningful conversations and create new behavior patterns in your marriage, all for the purpose of fostering a stron

Ever wondered how the intimate ties of marriage can weave into the complex tapestry of business? Ready for an adventure that transforms love in your personal life into fuel for professional success? Today, we unpack the profound connections between commitment in marriage and business. We take you through the labyrinth of falling in love – a four-stage journey that resonates deeply in both personal and professional relationships. We dissect the often misunderstood struggles in marriages and shed light on the potency of self-reflection. Believe us, it's not always about pointing fingers, sometimes, the solution lies in a mirror. The path to sustaining healthy relationships saturated with trust and passion starts here.Join us, as we commit to providing hope and help on this incredibly challenging, yet immeasurably rewarding journey of marriage and business.Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.Regardless of your situation,

Are you prepared to venture into the labyrinth of emotional complexities that lead some women to cheat? This episode promises an honest exploration into a topic that's often swept under the rug. Join us as we unravel the reasons why some women may stray from their marital vows. From emotional dissatisfaction to raw physical desire, we discuss real-life stories to illustrate how women may justify their actions and the devastating consequences that may follow. While we assert that cheating is never justifiable, we aim to shine a light on the intricate layers of motivations that can lead to such decisions.And, here’s the hard bit: confronting your spouse about a potential affair. Picture this, you've noticed signs, you're anxious, and you need to address this issue with your partner. It's a sensitive task and can be met with a range of emotional reactions. But, don't despair! We're here to guide you on managing these reactions and how best to navigate this tricky terrain. Learn abou

Why do people cheat? Are men and women motivated by different reasons to step out of their committed relationships? This episode delves into the fascinating world of infidelity, examining the psychology and motivation behind affairs. Surprising yet true, research suggests that a staggering 30-50% of couples will experience infidelity at some point. We navigate through the complexity of such actions, exploring why some individuals do not view their actions as adulterous, regardless of societal norms and moral obligations.But wait, there's more. Guess what, a marriage can be protected from these affairs. It requires consistent, intentional investment. This episode doesn't just stop at dissecting the reasons behind cheating, but also guides you on how to invest in your marriage meaningfully to prevent it from deteriorating over time. We put forth strategies on how to have open conversations about potential temptations and offer ways to resist them. Brace yourself as we journey through the intriguing an

Ever found yourself quickly labeling someone as a narcissist without truly grasping the concept? Today, we debunk myths and misconceptions around narcissism and selfishness. Kimberly discusses the evolution of narcissism from a personality trait to a diagnosable disorder, currently affecting only 1% of the population. In an era where internet has birthed a surge in self-proclaimed 'narcissists', we emphasize the need to fully understand the term and the dangers it holds when misused. We then transition into discussing ways to deal with those who exhibit narcissistic traits or heightened selfishness in our relationships. Contrary to popular belief, the answer isn't tough love or firm boundaries, but empathy. We explore the idea of understanding where the selfishness is originating from - fear, low self-esteem, or changing personal desires. We also highlight the importance of setting healthy boundaries and protecting oneself in these situations. Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Hel

People talk a lot about intimacy. But usually when they do, they refer to sex. When we talk about intimacy, we talk about openness, transparency, vulnerability... really getting to know the other person and the other person knowing you seeing deep inside. Are there tips to be able to accomplish that kind of intimacy? Yes. We'll be talking about those on this episode of Relationship Radio.Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.Thank you so much for being a loyal listener of Relationship Radio. Because of that, we would lik

In today's episode of Relationship Radio, we're diving into a topic that many couples face at some point in their marriage: What to do when your spouse loses their job.

Nobody wants to hear it. And if you've heard it, it hurts... It's when your spouse looks at you and says, "I don't love you anymore." Or maybe they say it like this, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you anymore."Is it over? Is there anything you can do? Actually, there's a lot you can do. That's what we talk about on today's episode of Relationship Radio.Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.Thank you so much for being a loyal listener of Relationship Radio. Because

You would think in a marriage that there would be a great degree of intimacy, maybe passion. But sometimes people just feel like they're living with a roommate. If that's you, is there something you can do about it? Let's talk about it on today's episode of Relationship Radio.Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.Sign up for the free training here!marriagehelper.com/steps

Your spouse cheated on you, and you've decided that you want to forgive your spouse. And now you find it's a lot more difficult to do than you thought it was going to be. Is there a way to do it? Yes, we'll explain that to you on this episode of Relationship Radio.Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.Sign up for the free training here!marriagehelper.com/steps

What do you do if your spouse is checked out emotionally? Do you accept it or tolerate it? Or do you do something about it? That's what we talk about in today's episode of Relationship Radio.Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.Sign up for the free training here!marriagehelper.com/steps