Sexology

Welcome to episode 402 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with a professional dominatrix and author - Tina Horn. In this conversation, we discuss her book, Why Are People Into That?: A Cultural Investigation of Kink, the evolution of Internet platforms for sex workers, and the politics surrounding sex work and bodily autonomy. Tina Horn is a writer, educatrix, and media-maker. Her book of fetish cultural criticism based on her long-running indie podcast Why Are People Into That?! will be out in June 2024 from Hachette. Tina is the creator/writer of the sci-fi sex-rebel comic book series Safe Sex (Image), and the cult detective thriller Deprog; she was also the host/cowriter of the phone sex podcast Operator (Wondery). Her reporting on sexual subcultures has appeared in Rolling Stone, Playboy, Hazlitt, Glamour, Jezebel and elsewhere; she is the author of two nonfiction books and has contributed to numerous anthologies including We Too: Essays on Sex Work and Survival, which she also c

EP401 - A Little Behind: Exploring Anal Play and PleasureWelcome to episode 401 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Evan Goldstein. In this conversation, we discuss his new comprehensive book on anal sex ‘Butt Seriously’, safe practices for anal engagement, the impact of diet on anal health, and the exploration of anal orgasms.Dr. Evan Goldstein is the leading anal health expert in the United States, founder of Future Method, and one of the few surgeons in the world whose practice, Bespoke Surgical, is dedicated to treating and restoring the human butt. He holds a perennial spot on the list of top doctors for the New York metro area, and Crain’s New York Business lists him as one of its notable LGBTQ+ leaders and executives. He has been featured in national publications including GQ, Well+Good, Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, New York Magazine, Forbes, Fast Company, Out, and Shape; is a popular podcast guest; and in demand as a speaker for both medical and sex-positive industries

Welcome to episode 400 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm thrilled to be speaking with Susan Morgan Taylor. In our conversation, we delve into the sexual polarity that draws partners together, highlighting the significance of embodying and shifting between masculine and feminine energies. We also explore ways for couples to reconnect, focusing on the importance of conscious intimacy practices and effective communication, including the idea of 'sacred dialogue'.Susan Morgan Taylor graduated from UC Santa Barbara in 1998 and soon after became a licensed massage therapist. However, her true calling lay elsewhere. In 2008, she began formal training in alternative energy healing and the intuitive arts, leading her to a new path as a spiritual teacher, somatic sex therapist, and intuitive healer. Susan's journey was filled with challenges, mistakes, and growth. Her friend and mentor, Teresa Tingle, played a crucial role in her development, providing guidance that went beyond classroom learning. By

Welcome to episode 399 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Veronica Cisneros. In this conversation, we explore personal anecdotes from both our marriages, looking at the dynamics of long-term relationships, and share tips for maintaining a strong, passionate connection. Veronica Cisneros is a licensed marriage and family therapist with over seven years of experience. She is also the owner of a group private practice, a mother of three, and has been married for 21 years. Veronica specializes in helping housewives transform their marriages, communicate effectively, and build confidence. She understands the challenges of cutting through communication barriers, having experienced them herself. Despite having what seemed like an ideal life, she and her husband felt disconnected, with conversations often revolving around avoidance, kids' hobbies, and schedules. In her private practice, Veronica has assisted numerous couples facing similar struggles. Her proven strategies and step-b

Welcome to episode 398 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Edy Nathan. In this conversation, we explore the idea of sexual grief. Edy explains how this term is tied to the traumatic events that can shape one's sexual identity and desire. Drawing from her clinical experience, Edy provides a thorough look at how sexual grief appears and impacts people. Edy Nathan is a licensed clinical social worker in private practice in New York City. Edy’s work focuses on topics surrounding the tough conversations people don’t like to have — grief, sex, and trauma. Her work in grief, trauma, and sexuality offers insight into the way loss affects the soul and the brain. She uses these insights to breathe new meaning into the lives of those stagnated by loss or trauma. Edy has master’s degrees in psychology, drama, and social work, and post-graduate work in sex therapy and sex education. She is a Certified Sex Therapist, certified Hypnotherapist, EMDR clinician, drama therapist, Psychology Tod

Welcome to episode 397 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Irene Fehr. In this conversation, we discuss the various forms of sensitivity, including sensory, energetic, and emotional, and how these impact a person's daily life and intimate relationships.Irene Fehr, MA, CCPC, SEP, Sex & Intimacy Coach helps couples make love and sex work in a long-term relationship and bring sex and passion into sexless ones. Weaving together somatic coaching, mindfulness, emotional communication work and experience around the intricate dynamics of women's sexual desire in a long-term relationship, Irene has developed and successfully applied her holistic Connection SexTM approach with couples who come to her as a last resort before divorce to turn their relationships around towards to include sexual intimacy and passion. Irene is no stranger to her clients’ issues. Her personal story of losing her libido and ending up in a sexless marriage all by the time she was 29 has been featured w

Welcome to episode 396 of the Sexology Podcast! In today's solo episode, we’re excited to delve into the fascinating world of sexual fantasies. We’ll be featuring insights from esteemed sex therapists and educators who will provide a deep understanding of this intriguing topic. We'll explore various theories about where these fantasies come from, including Freud's theories on evolutionary psychology and the perspectives offered by social learning theories. These insights will help us understand the complex nature of our fantasies and their origins. In addition, we’ll be sharing a wide range of sexual fantasies that have been submitted anonymously by our audience. Our goal is to reduce stigma and diminish feelings of shame surrounding these experiences, offering a safe space for open and honest discussion.In this episode, you will hear: ·      Exploring Sexual Fantasies·      Freud: The Way Fantasies Reveal Childhood Desires·      Evolutionary Psychology: Fantasies and Reproductive Success·      So

Welcome to episode 395 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Amanda Olson. In this conversation, we discuss the importance of pelvic floor health and its impact on sexual health, the functions of pelvic floor muscles and the role of specific products from her company, Intimate Rose, in addressing these issues.Dr. Olson earned her Bachelor of Science degree from Pacific University, and a Doctorate Degree in Physical Therapy from Regis University, graduating as a member of the Jesuit National Honor Society. She holds a Certification of Achievement in pelvic floor physical therapy (CAPP-PF) from the American Physical Therapy Association, and the Pelvic Floor Practitioner Certification (PRPC) through the Herman and Wallace Pelvic Institute. She is also a certified Stott Pilates instructor and RRCA certified running coach. She is the president and chief clinical officer of Intimate Rose where she develops pelvic health products and education.  She is passionate about empowering wome

Welcome to episode 394 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Richard Espinoza. In this conversation, we discuss the evolving landscape of online dating and its impact on modern relationships and societal views. Dr. Espinoza shares insights from his work with the LGBTQ+ community, the challenges and psychological impacts faced by individuals using dating apps, and the importance of effective communication and introspection in forming meaningful relationships.Richard “Dr. E” Espinoza, PsyD, is a leading clinical psychologist based in Los Angeles, specializing in trauma and resilience. His practice emphasizes serving the LGBTQ+ community and its allies, striving to empower individuals from diverse backgrounds through comprehensive psychological assessments, transformative talk therapy, and dedicated activism. As an esteemed professor and captivating speaker, Dr. Espinoza shares practical insights on self-discovery and personal growth. He also creates accessible self-help resources

Welcome to episode 393 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Charlotte Mia Rose and Chris Maxwell Rose from Pleasure Mechanics. In this conversation, we discuss their backgrounds in erotic massage and sexological bodywork, the importance of enthusiastic consent, overcoming hesitations related to body image and cultural conditioning, and specific techniques for improving oral sex experiences. After pioneering the field of Sexological Bodywork, partners Chris Maxwell Rose and Charlotte Mia Rose co-created PleasureMechanics.com in 2006 and devoted their lives to generating online resources to support folks in cultivating more erotic pleasure, joy and connection. Known for their passionate compassion and game-changing re-frames, Chris and Charlotte guide folks to expand their pleasure and erotic experiences through their erotic touch training and effective erotic education at PleasureMechanics.com. You'll also find their podcast Speaking of Sex with the Pleasure Mechanics on all pl

Welcome to episode 392 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with August McLaughlin. In this conversation, we discuss the complexities and richness of orgasms, how societal myths influence sexual experiences, and the importance of sexual education. August shares her journey and insights on overcoming taboos around discussions of sex and pleasure. We also talk about accidental orgasms, sleepgasms, and the impact of mindset and fantasy on sexual experiences.August McLaughlin is a journalist, author, sex educator and host/producer of  the true story podcast, Girl Boner Radio, which was named “one of the best sex podcasts you should be listening to” by Romper and a top feminist podcast by Bellesa.  August's articles and expertise have been featured in a range of publications, including Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post, O: The Oprah Magazine and Shape. And her Girl Boner book, called a "refreshingly inclusive...welcome addition to sexual health literature" by Publisher's Wee

Welcome to episode 391 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Magda Kay. In this conversation, we discuss the differences between sex and intimacy, the significance of mindfulness and energy work in Tantra, and Magda's experiences in tantric communities. Magda also emphasizes the importance of genuine connection and communication in relationships, alongside practical advice on incorporating tantric rituals into daily practice.Magda Kay is an Intimacy Expert, Tantra Teacher & Conscious Relating Coach, author, and founder of the School of Intimacy. More than 10 years ago she quit her corporate job, and embarked on a journey that led her through ashrams, yoga training, Tantric communities, and ceremonies. Through hours of daily devotion and practices into her deepest parts, facing the wounds and fears, and it also revealed her highest calling: to share and teach others how to access their deepest desires and ability to create transformative intimacy in their lives. Her work com

Welcome to episode 390 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Kirk Honda. In this conversation, we discuss the complex and often misunderstood topic of infidelity. Dr. Honda debunks several pervasive myths, such as 'it takes two to cheat,' 'once a cheater, always a cheater,' and gendered reasons for cheating. We also explore the notion of forgiveness, the multifaceted process of recovery, and the critical role of therapy for both the individual and the couple.Dr. Kirk Honda, PsyD, LMFT, is the esteemed host of The Psychology in Seattle® podcast and YouTube channel. The mission of this platform is to enhance the world by delivering educational and engaging content focused on psychology, psychotherapy, and culture. Established in 2008, the podcast and YouTube channel have expanded significantly, now boasting over 4,000 episodes, 350,000 YouTube subscribers, and thousands of paying members on Patreon and YouTube. Currently, we release approximately 12 episodes per w

Welcome to episode 389 of the Sexology Podcast! I'm Dr. Nazanin Moali, and today I'll be delving into the crucial topic of sexless relationships, discussing their prevalence, effects, and solutions.  In this solo episode, I'll explore the significant impacts of a sexless relationship, the contributing factors, and potential solutions. I’ll also share perspectives from our viewers' experiences, explore the concept of asexuality, and emphasize the importance of communication and therapy.  Key highlights include feelings of resentment, lowered self-esteem, emotional and physical disconnection, and an increased risk of affairs and divorce. Additionally, I’ll provide practical advice and resources for seeking therapy and maintaining intimacy.  Be sure to check out my YouTube video; "The Top 10 Effects of a Sexless Relationship on Men" for more insights into this important issue.In this episode, you will hear:·      Defining a Sexless Relationship·      Impact on Self-Esteem and Emotional He

Welcome to episode 388 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Amy Pearlman. In this conversation, we discuss the implications of testosterone on fertility, the potential side effects, and the importance of medical supervision. Dr Pearlman also speaks about the role of lifestyle changes and supplements in managing low testosterone and highlights the value of holistic care.Dr. Amy Pearlman is a board-certified urologist with a dedicated focus on male sexual and hormonal health, as well as genital reconstruction. She is renowned for her expertise in providing both medical and surgical therapies for men experiencing erectile dysfunction, penile curvature, and testosterone deficiency. Additionally, Dr. Pearlman offers transfeminine gender-affirming genital surgery. Her approach to healthcare extends beyond surgical proficiency. Dr Pearlman is passionate about educating individuals on the fundamentals of their bodies, promoting healthy behaviors, and empowering people to live their mo

Welcome to episode 387 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Courtney Brame, founder of Something Positive for Positive People, a non-profit organization dedicated to helping those diagnosed with genital HSV2 (herpes) navigate the stigma and mental health challenges that come with the diagnosis. As founder of Something Positive for Positive People, Courntey combines his expertise as a 500-hour registered yoga teacher with his passion for destigmatizing herpes. Through SPFPP, he offers restorative yoga and meditation in support groups, enhancing holistic well-being for those living with herpes. As the host of the SPFPP podcast, Courtney shares inspiring stories of individuals navigating herpes stigma. He extends his advocacy to sexual health education and STD prevention, promoting stigma-free communication among healthcare providers and organizations. Driven to create a world where herpes discussions are empowering and stigma-free, Courtney's work at SPFPP is reshaping sexual health

Welcome to episode 386 of Sexology Podcast! Today we are delving into the often-taboo topic of erectile dysfunction (ED), featuring insights from clinical psychologists, sex therapists, physical therapists, and coaches.Across this episode, we will cover the psychological and physical aspects of ED, offering practical tools and strategies for managing this condition. Guest experts, including Dr. Eric FitzMedrud, Dr. Judson Brandeis, Caitlin V, Dr. Susie Gronski, and Darshana Avila, share their top tips for addressing ED, focusing on holistic and embodied approaches to sexual wellness. We also look at the importance of addressing sexual shame, relationship dynamics, and emotional well-being as integral components of tackling ED. We encourage you to consider therapy, coaching, and educational courses as pathways to improve your sexual health and confidence.In this episode, you will hear:·      Tackling Erectile Dysfunction: Breaking the Silence·      Expert Insights: Psychological Perspectives on ED·      Holist

Welcome to episode 385 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Nadège. In this episode, Nadège speaks to us about arousal in cisgender men and how to embrace and enhance it by breaking societal norms and constraints. Nadège emphasizes the importance of not shaming sexual fantasies as a step towards achieving quicker arousal.Nadège is a sex scholar, bestselling author, and speaker dedicated to teaching others how to feel healthier and empowered in their sexuality.From a young age, Nadège has been unapologetically curious about sex. Whenever a friend faced heartbreak or a sexual dilemma, she became the go-to person for advice. Over time, Nadège was labelled variously as a slut and a trailblazer—titles she embraces with pride.Over the years, Nadège realized the unique gift they possess in sex education, a gift they are passionate about sharing with the world. On an average day, you’ll find Nadège in her home office, hair in a power ponytail, as she uses her nerd powers for good. When Nadège is not b

Welcome to episode 384 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Josephine McNary. In this episode, Dr. McNary's insightful discussion sheds light on a topic often overlooked in healthcare conversations. By addressing the sexual side effects of medications, she highlights the significance of holistic patient care. Her emphasis on strategies for managing these side effects underscores the importance of proactive healthcare planning and patient education.Moreover, Dr. McNary's focus on the crucial role of communication between patients and healthcare providers reinforces the foundation of a strong patient-provider relationship. This open dialogue can lead to better understanding, increased trust, and improved overall health outcomes.Lastly, the mention of the potential for sexual function to return to baseline after discontinuation of medication offers hope and encouragement to those facing these challenges. It serves as a reminder that while side effects may be temporary, the benefits of

Welcome to episode 383 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Larry Waldman, a recently semi-retired certified school psychologist and licensed clinical, forensic psychologist from Phoenix, Arizona. In this episode, Dr. Waldman discusses the challenges faced in second marriages, highlighting the importance of maintaining positive interactions, how to manage conflicts constructively, and the role sexual compatibility plays in a long-lasting relationship.Dr. Waldman emphasizes positive interactions, constructive conflict resolution, and sexual compatibility as key elements for success in second marriages. Couples can strengthen their bond through appreciation, kindness, and respect, while addressing conflicts through active listening and compromise. Open communication and understanding of each other's needs help sustain a healthy marriage, fostering a strong and fulfilling partnership.Dr. Waldman trained as a public speaker and has presented for PESI.  His signature presentations are: The