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66.当你苛刻要求自己时,你需要原谅你自己

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Human growth is a process of experimentation, trial, and error ultimately leading to wisdom.人类的成长是一个经历,试验和最终失败而引向智慧的过程。Each time you choose to trust yourself and take action, you can never quite be certaion how the situation will turn out.每次你选择相信自己,开始采取行动时,你绝不会知道这个情况会如何。Sometimes you are victorious, and sometimes you become disillusioned.又是你是胜者,但是有时你又会幻灭。The failed experiments, however, are no less valuable than the experiments that ultimately prove successful; in fact, you usually learn more from your perceived "failures" than you do from your perceived "success".然而,失败的经历远远高于成功,事实上,你从失败里学到的比在成功里学到的更多。If you have made what you perceive to be a mistake or failed to live up to your own expectations, you will most likely put up a barrier between your essence and the part of you that is the alleged wrong-doer.如果你自责犯了一个错误或辜负了自己的期望,你将很可能在你成功和失败之间竖起一道障碍。However, perceiving past actions as mistakes implies guilt and blame, and it is not possible to learn anything meaning while you are engaged in b