Muhammad West

Types of disagreements Personal disagreement Marital and family disagreement Work disagreement Religious disagreements Personal disagreements Competition for resources Conflicting physiologies and personalities Conflicting views The "Adaab" to overcome these differences Identify the source of the conflict – Why are we even fighting Try to understand and respect the counter view – Learn to listen, Never judge the person or the intentions of the other person Try to work from common ground Ethics in dialogue - I statements vs You, Private vs Public, Not to hurt Look for a win-win solution - Everyone must a chance and everyone must compromise Objective outsider Gracious in victory and sorry in defeat Let go of past issues - Would you not like Allah to forgive your faults? Look beyond the incident Relationships with Family “… and fear Allaah through Whom you demand your mutual (rights), and (do not cut the relations of) the wombs (kinship)…” Surah