"solutions...with Courtney Anderson!"™

In our HELP! SITUATION SPOTLIGHT™ series, we shine the light on challenges that community members have shared with me. This episode is, “People tell me that I am ‘too intense!’ What should I do?”  “Full Definition of INTENSE 1 a :  existing in an extreme degree b :  having or showing a characteristic in extreme degree 2 :  marked by or expressive of great zeal, energy, determination, or concentration 3 a :  exhibiting strong feeling or earnestness of purpose b :  deeply felt” Intense. (n.d.). Retrieved June 1, 2014, from http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/intense Solution Process? What are the negative outcomes?  What are the positive outcomes? Are there more negative or positive outcomes? If you have more positive outcomes than negative ones, you most likely need to “find your tribe” (change your location to be around people who share your zeal, passion, and intensity). If you have more more negative outcomes than positive ones, you may need to reexamine your behavior to confirm if