Hannah And Matt Know It All

Han and Matt tackle questions entirely from listeners in this special episode, including: Listener The Blissful Nether Lich: "Where Do We Draw the Line for Throwing Out the Whole Historical Figure?" New York Times: "Prestigious Laura Ingalls Wilder Award Renamed Over Racial Insensitivity" Slate: "The Far Right’s Pedophilia Smear Campaign Is Working" Ravishly: "How To Love Something And Also Hold It Accountable, From My Favorite Murder's Biggest Fan" Wil Williams on Parasocial Relationships Listener The Awful Anaconda: "I Work With a Known Predator and No One Will Kick the Motherfucker Out" New York Times: "Catholic Priests Abused 1,000 Children in Pennsylvania, Report Says" Listener Sorrowfang: "Should I Get Married Quicker Than I'm Comfortable with so My Partner Can Get a Visa?" Listener The Electric Bone Scorpion: "My Sister Won't Tell Me Whether or Not She's Coming to my Wedding" SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with! Listener The Bronze Leviathan: "How Do I Deflect G

When Han and Matt are away, the kitties are at play! Seven INCREDIBLE listeners banded together and recorded a parody episode of the show from the perspective of our cats, Mad-Eye Moody and Shadowcat, and the results are spot-on and utterly delightful. Here it is for all to share in our delight! Credit to: Marenthius, Reanimator of Flora Xantar, Fearless Aeronaut Quarrius, Nimble Geomancer Maewyn the Lacerator Princess Silentstrike Amelia Oric, Progress Seeker Ezavul, Angel of Mending They even put together a Playbill with credits and cat pics! 10/10, would be parodied again.

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of July 29th, 2018, and beyond, including: Ask APW: "How Do We Make Our Non-Binary Guests Comfortable?" Queer Eye: "Sky's the Limit" Captain Awkward: "'When I told you my marriage is over, it wasn’t an invitation for advice on how to fix it.' + Summer Pledge Drive continues" Dear Prudence: "Is This Abuse or Just Lack of Sleep?" Ask a Manager: "my coworker brings her five kids to our work meetings" Baggage Check: "How do I get my sister to stop sharing my life story on her podcast?" SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with! Listener Talvir, Woodland Acrobat: "So, Is Gender Just a Measure of How Closely One Aligns With Gendered Stereotypes or What Exactly?" Listener Update and Question from Sonnet: "My Friend's Fiance is a Bit of a Jeffrey and I Don't Know How to Politely Explain Why I Can't Hang Out With Them Anymore" Reference: #61: Han and Matt Teach Polyamory 102: "How Much Should I Tell

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of July 22nd, 2018, and beyond, including: Matt Notes (Skip 5 minutes ahead if the below is not interesting to you!) Fantastical names: Are a Patron-Only perk going forward Leader Board: Will be retired on August 31st Emails: Can no longer all be responded to due to volume  Asking for a Friend: "My Houseguest Was a Brocialist Jerk. How Should I Respond?" Dear Wendy: "My New Boyfriend is Mad That My Male Roommates See Me Naked" Carolyn Hax: "When a friend talks down to you, should you speak up to her?" Baggage Check: "A friendship on the critical list?" Miss Manners: "In-laws can't seem to leave the camo at home" Dear Prudence: "My Best Friend’s Son Is Stalking My Daughter—and My Friend Calls It Puppy Love" SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with! Listener Norgowyn, Doomsayer of The Night's Fall: "How Do I Let My Friends and Family Know That My Moving Away Has Nothing to do With Them?" Shouto

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of July 15th, 2018, and beyond, including: Ask Dr. NerdLove: "Do I Need To Fire My Friend?" Susan Fowler: "Reflecting On One Very, Very Strange Year At Uber" Refinery29: "Feminist Apparel CEO Fires Entire Staff After They Learn He's An Admitted Sexual Abuser" Daily Beast: "Ousted Billboard CEO John Amato Being Probed for Sexual Misconduct" The Cut: "Thinx Ex-Employee Accuses Miki Agrawal of Sexual Harassment" NY Mag: "Vice Media Was Built on a Bluff" Savage Love: "Her Husband Demanded a Monogamous Commitment but Describes Their Marriage As Open" Jhumpa Lahiri: A Temporary Matter (from Interpreter of Maladies) Savage Love: "Learning To Trust Again After a Monogamish Relationship Blows Up" Ask a Manager: "my child-free coworkers constantly complain about people with children" Dear Fuck-Up: "My boyfriend can't manage his 'anxiety'" Dear Abby: "Hurt Turns To Anger As Video Games Consume Boyfriend" Ask Ellie: "Video gam

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of July 8th, 2018, and beyond, including: Listener Meetup in DC Saturday, July 21 at 6 PM - 10 PM Penn Social 801 E St NW, Washington, District of Columbia 20004 Han and Matt on the Ask a Manager Podcast Ask Amy: "Family friend is shocked by woman's film career" Ask APW: "What Do You Do When Your Husband Isn't Your Biggest Fan?" Dear Dharma: "Are We Sending Mixed Messages on Equality?" Dear Abby: "Crush On Married Boss Causes Heartache Every Day For Worker" Dear Wendy: "My Boyfriend Wants to Open Our Relationship But I Don't Want To" SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with! Shoutout to Captain Awkward: "#1123: Blanket statement: DONT FUCK YOUR STUDENTS" Shoutout to Carolyn Hax: "Parents offer racist undermining advice about her dream to adopt" Shoutout to Ask a Manager: "should I give my boss a heads-up about my half-sleeve tattoo" Karen Glass Instagram Shoutout to Ask Amy: "Woman's #MeT

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of July 1st, 2018, and beyond, including: Sense & Sensitivity: "A Very Talkative Friend Now Rides the Same Morning Train As Me And I Just Want My Quiet Time Back" Judge John Hodgman: "Singing Along to 'Hamilton' — at 'Hamilton'" Ask E. Jean: "How Do I Keep My Wedding Off Social Media?" Ask APW: "I Want My Friends To Be More Excited About My Polyamorous Engagement" Ask Amy: "Expectant parents want to avoid gender stereotypes" Take Gender Forward The Ethicist: "Must I Honor My Dad's Gifts to Political Groups?" Ask a Queer Chick: "Should I Shave My Legs So My Husband Is Attracted to Me?" SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with! Listener Mortified: "My Very Conservative Roommates Caught Me Sexting and I Don't Know What To Do" Shoutout to Savage Love: "The World Is on Fire but He Has a Question About Porn" Shoutout to Carolyn Hax: "Want to make sexism obsolete? Start with the kids." Shoutout

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of June 17th, 2018, and beyond, including: Carolyn Hax: "You have PTSD because you were abused. Don't beat yourself up." Ask a Manager: "my boss wants us to all share our mental health needs at every meeting" Dear Fuck-Up: "How do you live when everything sucks?" Savage Love: "His Wife Has Two Boyfriends and He's Got Squat" Politico: "Young Trumpies Hit D.C." Care and Feeding: "My Kid Doesn't Want to Volunteer. Is She Hopelessly Selfish?" #FellowKnowItAll Question: What do you think? Listener Lori: "Red Cross Is Guilt Tripping Me and I May Have Crossed a Line" Shoutout to You Need Help: "You’re Not Sure If You're a Boy and Gender Is Hard" The Nib: "Am I Queer Enough?" Shout-out to Ask Amy: "Jogger wonders how to respond to street harassment" Advice Column Alert: "Advice From A Nice Girl" on Refinery29 Happy Story About Polyamorous Relationship in the News Remira, Trouble Seeker's Thought on Friends' Mental Health

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of June 11th, 2018, and beyond, including: On Bodily Autonomy: Dear Jennifer: "My perfect girlfriend insists on getting breast implants" Sense & Sensitivity: "I'm concerned about teenage daughters posting model shots on Instagram" Ask Amy: "Girl pressed for nude photo should wear T-shirt instead" Ask Ellie: "I don't feel bad enough to end the affair I'm having" Savage Love: "Guy Alarmed, Yeah, By Younger Boyfriend's Interest" Ask a Manager: "my coworker interrupts my work to ask why I look so serious" r/relationships: "I'm [24 F] on vacation without my boyfriend [33 M] because he missed his flight. Would it be wrong to live it up and ignore him for a few weeks?" Listener Apin'eht, Thorny Duelist: Sadistic Work Bully Update and How to Leave a Job Review Without Burning Bridges Reference: Opinion Overflow #24: "How Do I Deal with a Sadistic Work Bully?" Kairluma, the Wonder of Haraka: Pink Bridesmaid Wedding Dress

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of June 3rd, 2018, and beyond, including: Captain Awkward: "Dudebro won't stop bugging me about another dudebro. I JUST WANNA DO MY JOB." Ask APW: "What Can I Do About A Partner Who Isn't Excited To Marry Me?" Carolyn Hax: "Mocking Yourself Isn't an Invitation for Others to Pile On" Dear Fuck-Up: "I Don't Think My Friend's Chronic Illness Is Real" Washington Post: "Dangerous unproven treatments for 'chronic Lyme disease' are on the rise" Shout-Out to Ask a Manager: "My Coworkers Keep Trying to Find out What My Chronic Illness Is" Ask a Manager: "Someone Spends an Hour a Day Putting on Makeup in Our Shared Bathroom" NOTE: Content Warning (Suicide and Domestic Abuse) from 37.01 through 54.04) Listener The Anonymous One: "My Online Friend Might Need Mental Health Intervention And I Don't Know What To Do" Listener Machete Alice Has Additional Advice About Group Therapy Confidentially Breach Reference: Han and Matt Know I

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of May 27th, 2018, and beyond, including: Dear Abby: "Hard Work in Gym Pays Off With Arm-Wrestling Triumph" Ask a Manager: "My Coworker Has Started Faking a British Accent" "Bust a Nut" Clip from My Brother, My Brother and Me Dear Mariella: "My Boyfriend Wants Me to See Other People for Romance and Sex" Dear Prudence: "Help! a Senior Colleague Asked Me, the Intern, to Help Translate His Animated Porn." Friendshipping!: "Please Respect My Bedtime" Listener Ila Seledria, Adrenaline Seeker: "Should I Address My Friend Who Might Be Violating Therapy Confidentiality on Social Media?" Listener Kalvarin Ashmor, Renowned Euphomancer: "Our Friends Need Serious Help, But What More Can We Do For Them?" Domestic Abuse Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 Correction: Lice Not a Cleanliness Issue Reference: #72: Han and Matt Air Their Grievances Head Lice Facts New Advice Column Alert: CNBC's "Work It out" Jenna Goudreau Shoutout to As

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of May 20th, 2018, and beyond, including: This Episode's Sponsor: Sudio Use discount code "KnowItAll" at checkout for 15% off any order! Ask Amy: "Gay Couple Wonders How to Respond to Neighbors' Petty Harassment" Carolyn Hax: "Don’t Throw Out the Baby with the Bedbugs" Ask a Manager: "My Boss's Dog Keeps Attacking My Co-Workers" Dear Wendy: "My New Girlfriend Told Me She's Bisexual and I Am Not Ok With It" Y'all Need Help: "Your Potential Throuple Turned Into a Couple and Someone's Feeling Left Behind" The Totally Super True Origin Story of This Week's Sponsor, Sudio Okay, maybe a teensy bit embellished Listener Kelly: "Can I Politely Decline My Stepmother's Tacky Gifts?" Listener Tygora the Unstoppable: "How Do I Get My Coworker to Stop Oversharing?" Update to Step It Up From Marenthius, Reanimator of Flora Reference: #65: Han and Matt Step It Up Shreddies "Anti-Fart" Underwear Also: Subtle Butt (lol) Poo-Pourr

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of May 13th, 2018, and beyond, including: Ask a Manager: "My Boss Gave All the Women Flowers for Mother's Day" Interpersonal Skills: "How to enforce a "No Shoes" policy in my apartment?" Swipe This!: "How do I get away with refollowing a friend I unfollowed when I was upset?" Sense & Sensitivity: "Friend Might Be Gay" College Humor: "Honest Interracial Date" Let Us Sex-plain: "My Boyfriend Still Has Dating Apps" Listener Kairluma, the Wonder of Haraka: "I'm Wearing a Bridal Party Dress That I Don't Like; Can I Change Into a Different One For the Reception?" Listener The Nameless One: "On Bodies, Weddings, and Chronic Illness (The POWER TRIO)" BONUS: Shoutout to Social Q's: "'It's Not My Fault I'm White.' Sure, but That's Not the Point." BONUS: Shoutout to Alison Green on Dear Wendy: "Five Questions with Alison Green of 'Ask a Manager'" BONUS: Shoutout to Ask a Manager: "The 18-Month Coffee Debate, and Other Stories

In this week's Overflow episode, we apologize for several missteps, gush over some of the wildest advice column questions this year so far from Ask a Manager and Dan Savage, and much more! Begin your journey here: New Fan Subreddit and Two Fan Spin-Off Facebook Group HaMKIA Has a Subreddit (listener-created) Learn to Know it All: Makeup and Fashion (Facebook, listener-created) Learn to Know All the Self-care: HAMkittens Taking Care of Themselves (Facebook, listener-created) Several Listeners Got the Hated Musical Guess Right Before the Episode Aired Well done! Badges have been awarded. Apology: It's "Indigenous Children" and Not "Native Children" Reference: #70: Han and Matt Hang Provocative Artwork, Asking for a Friend: "We’re White. Can We Adopt a Black Child?" Reference: #70: Han and Matt Hang Provocative Artwork, Ask Dr. NerdLove: "My Boyfriend Is Spying On Other Women" Apology: We Implied that Porn Performers Aren't Real People, Too Apology: Rubius Rascal's Additional Thoughts on Creeper Boy

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of May 6th, 2018, and beyond, including: Ask a Manager: "My Coworker Has a Podcast About Sex" Ask Dr. NerdLove: "My Boyfriend Is Spying On Other Women" Asking for a Friend: "We’re White. Can We Adopt a Black Child?" NPR: "Incentives And Cultural Bias Fuel Foster System" Dear Abby: "Couple Disagrees On Etiquette Of Curating Their Bathroom Art" Time: "Immersions (Piss Christ)" My Brother, My Brother and Me (fan video): "play with me!" r/relationships: "I (28f) found out my husband (28m) is getting 3 expensive, sugary coffee drinks a day. Me approaching him caused an angry tirade about how I ruined his life. How to recover from this?" Parks and Recreation (Complex list): "Entertainment 720" Ask APW: "Is It Un-Feminist to Want to Lose Weight for My Wedding?" Listener Heather: "Help! Is Being Polyamorous Making Me Attractive to Creeps?" Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to hanand

In this week's Overflow episode, we FINALLY reveal the critically acclaimed musical that we hate, one year later after this bit has overstayed its welcome at least 10-times over. But! To make up for our (Matt's) shenanigans, we're also covering three listener questions! Let's do the thing: The Top Five Incorrect Guesses  #5. Les Mis #4. Wicked #3. Rent Lindsay Ellis: "RENT - Look Pretty and Do As Little as Possible: A Video Essay" #2. Avenue Q #1. Dear Evan Hansen The Musical That We Hate... Book of Mormon! Some good reading about it in the comments of this AAM question Final Correct Musical Guesses This Week Listener Heldraga the Unseen Listener Lady Margella III, Commander of the Thunderpearl Airship Lady Margella Recommends Head Over Heels Arkyn the Enduring: "How Do I Suggest to My Mom That Her Diet-Resistant Gut Issues Might Be Anxiety?" Thessafre Goldwing, Nature’s Fury: "Was I Wrong to Call Out My Upstairs Neighbor For Their Noisiness?" Stuck: "How Do I Stop Feeling Like a Failure and a B

Han and Matt take a trip down sexy memory lane for episode #69 and replay the top 5 sexiest hits, including: #5) Listener Uldrek the Resilient: "Should My Partner and I Open Our Relationship to Date Our Best Friends (Who Are Also Partners)?" Reference: #61: Han and Matt Teach Polyamory 102 (& Rebrand!) #4) Captain Awkward: "Should two bisexual, polyamorous sisters date the same guy?" Reference: #1: Hannah and Matt Set Some Boundaries #3) Dear Prudence: "42 Pearls and Counting" Reference: Opinion Overflow #2: Opinion Overflow #2: "Are Hannah and Matt Too Obsessed with Dear Prudence?" #2) Ask E. Jean: "How Do I Get My Fiancé to Stop Catcalling Me?" Reference: #25: Hannah and Matt Fight Rape Culture #1) Dear Sugars: "Is There Such a Thing as Wanting Too Much Sex?" Reference: #48: Hannah and Matt Scrutinize Sexual Imbalances Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to hanandmattknowitall@gmail.com, anonymously at bit.ly/askhanandmatt, or to askahelpinghan@gmail

In this week's Overflow episode, we talk about Broadway musicals, Daniel Mallory Ortberg's new look, new advice columns, trans-antagonistic family members, and more! Here we go: Final Week to Guess the Critically Acclaimed Musical We Hate! Correct Musical Guesses This Week Listener The Quantum Feline Listener Raal'tuc, Vexing Archfiend BroadwayADay App For alerts on entering Broadway lotteries Facebook topics now have tags! Daniel Mallory Ortberg's Dear Prudence Photo Update Advice Column Alert: Stack Overflow's 'Interpersonal Skills' Stack Overflow: "Can we be game master as a couple?" Dame Magazine Advice Column Ft. Ashley Nicole Black Help choose a name on Twitter Miss Manners' Take on 'Must jilted bride pay for guests’ expenses?' Reference: Han and Matt Yield the Floor "Strength-Based Thinking" Tips From Listener Xantar, Fearless Aeronaut Reference: Han and Matt Step It Up More Advice for Friends Who Want to Hug Reference: Hannah and Matt Podcast With PodcastPodcast Update on Walkin

Han and Matt are joined again by Alison Green of Ask a Manager fame on the Monday episode to talk about Alison's upcoming book (out TOMORROW!), re-discuss some recent Ask a Manager questions, and tackle questions of various topics from around the web: Sponsor: Sudio, maker of stylish headphones! Use discount code "KNOWITALL" at checkout for 15% off your order. Alison Green Ask a Manager Book Direct Report on Slate Ask a Manager on Twitter Alison's previous Han and Matt guest spots:  #13: Hannah and Matt Ask a Manager #23: Hannah and Matt Summon Alison Green #60: Hannah and Matt Ask a Manager II: The Speakquel Ask a Manager: "I got written up because my coworker saw maxi pads in my car" Ask a Manager: "I'm required to take two weeks off and I don't want to" Dear Prudence: "How Do I Prevent My Coworker From Pranking Me Again?" (AKA 'Confused') r/relationships: "Girlfriend of 2 years (28f) replaced all my (28m) old books with new copies, angry doesn't begin to describe how I feel" Ask APW: "Will My Bac

Han and Matt interviewed the extremely qualified Kristin Russo for the Monday episode and tackled listener queeries on bisexuality, asexuality, presenting queer, and more!: Kristin Russo My Kid Is Gay Everyone Is Gay Kristin on Autostraddle Buffering the Vampire Slayer Kristin on Twitter We Exist Beyond the Binary Listener Simon, Leaver of Expensive Thermoses on Public Transit: "How Do I Respond to People Who Are Hellbent on Erasing My Bi Identity?" Listener The Invisible Bi: "How Do I Dress Queer So That My Bisexuality Isn't Invisible?" Listener Decidedly Anonymous: "Who Should I Come Out to In My Family, and How?" Listener Ursial the Cyclone: "How Do I Come Out as Asexual and Aromantic to My Mother, Who Wants Grandkids?" PBS' First Person on Asexuality Listener Pissed Off Trans Lesbian: "Should I Invite My Probably Transphobic Uncle to My Wedding?" Listener Mary, Veiled Reckoner: "What's the Best Non-Gendered Honorific to Use When Addressing Strangers?" BONUS: 'Assigned Male' Comic: A Trans Resource