Sexology

Welcome to episode 362 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Tara Suwinyattichaiporn. In this episode, we discuss Yoni Massage, how it enables women to relinquish control and gain a profound understanding of their bodies, redirecting the emphasis towards exploration instead of climaxing and the crucial importance of sexual communication in attaining sexual liberation.  Dr. Tara is a tenured professor of relational and sexual communication at California State University Fullerton (recieved her tenure at the age of 33), an award-winning researcher, a sex and relationship coach, and the host of Luvbites by Dr. Tara Podcast that focuses on sexual wellness and sexploration.  Her work has been featured in KTLA News, Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health Magazine, Insider, and other media outlets. She's also on the advisory board for the MŌN app and Superstars app.   In 2022, Dr. Tara gave a TEDx Talk titled Become Sexually Powerful that highlights her 5,000-participant study examining predict

Welcome to episode 361 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Michelle Renee. In this episode, we discuss Michelle’s journey going through an unhealthy relationship and problematic childhood, addressing trauma and building communication skills and learning to transition to a sexual environment you can be comfortable in and confident with.  Michelle Renee, a West Michigan native, delves into the personal nature of her work, shaped by generational experiences. Raised in a household with communication challenges, she reflects on her parents' tumultuous relationship and her own journey through an 18-year marriage that led to self-discovery.   After her mother's death in 2002 and a complicated relationship with her father, Michelle found a turning point in a sex education workshop in 2014. This marked the beginning of her transformative journey toward self-love, body acceptance, and courageous life choices.   Michelle's career shift into professional cuddling became a catalyst fo

Welcome to episode 360 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Laura Copley. In this episode, we discuss Dr. Laura Copley's book, "Loving You is Hurting Me”, how Trauma bonding is about deep emotional connections and why solo relationship effort can yield positive results.  Trauma, heartache, betrayal, and abandonment can leave lasting scars that break the heart, clouds the mind, and shatter the soul. Dr. Laura Copley understands how painful and damaging your trauma wounds are and is trained to guide you toward healing.   Dr. Laura brings life transformation and Post-Traumatic Growth to your fingertips by offering one-on-one guidance, small group mentoring, powerful courses, online workshops, in-person conferences, live Q&A, and community support for those to connect who are on similar self-healing journey.   A globe-trotter at her core, Laura’s mission has taken her all over the world where she has made profound healing impacts in the lives of her clients and students. After

Welcome to episode 359 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Alexandra Solomon. In this episode, we discuss how sexual self-awareness involves understanding societal messages, the evolving nature of sexuality in long-term relationships and the need to break free from narrow sexual scripts.  Over the last two decades, Dr. Alexandra H. Solomon has become one of today’s most trusted voices in the world of relationships, and her work on Relational Self-Awareness has reached millions of people around the world.  Dr. Solomon is a licensed clinical psychologist at The Family Institute at Northwestern University, and she is on faculty in the School of Education and Social Policy at Northwestern University where she teaches the internationally renowned course, Building Loving and Lasting Relationships: Marriage 101.  In addition to writing articles and chapters for leading academic journals and books in the field of marriage and family, she is the author of two bestselling books, Loving Bravely

Welcome to episode 358 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Victoria Hartmann. In this episode, we discuss Victoria's background in studying necrophilia to aid criminologists, understanding the ethics and consent in the fantasies and experiences of necrophiliacs and the need for more research and understanding of paraphilias and their origins.  Dr. Hartmann holds two doctorate degrees, including a Ph.D. in Human Sexuality with an emphasis on Clinical Sexology, as well as a Master’s in Public Health. Her primary focus is forensic sexology, and the preservation of erotic artifacts, including the archiving of sexually explicit films. Her Doctoral work centered on the effects of dark web violent and explicit films.   She authored the book “I Love Dead People – Inside the Mind of Death Fetishists” based on her doctoral thesis and has proposed a new theoretical framework for classifying paraphilias.    She is an expert explicit material valuator; she is the current Director of the E

Welcome to episode 357 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Darshana Avila. In this episode, we discuss the importance of touch in human connection and intimacy, why we need healthy and attuned touch in relationships and the importance of relaxed arousal for a satisfying sexual experience.  Darshana Avila believes that the foundation of her work in Sex and Intimacy is based on mutual trust. She practices transparency about her identities, recognizing that this disclosure empowers potential clients to make informed decisions about their comfort level and compatibility with her values. Darshana offers a wealth of articles and training resources aimed at dismantling oppression on her Resources page.   Darshana Avila is a cisgender woman of Eastern European Jewish heritage with white skin, able-bodied, and straight-passing. She identifies as bisexual and queer and uses she/her or they/them pronouns. Her life journey has spanned various chapters, including living in liberal pockets of the

Welcome to episode 356 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Cory Torgerson. In this episode, we discuss how erectile dysfunction is on the rise, affecting both older and younger men, the way porn addiction can contribute to this issue and how unrealistic expectations about sex can also impact erectile function.  Dr. Torgerson has been frequently invited to teach and lecture on these topics across North America. His entire medical education and surgical training was completed at the prestigious University of Toronto, within their Toronto hospitals and the University Health Network. Dr. Torgerson has received national recognition from his patients and colleagues for his incredible surgical skills. He is certified by the Royal College of Physicians and Surgeons of Canada in head, neck, facial surgery. In order to obtain this certification, Dr. Torgerson was required to complete additional years of training. Dr. Torgerson’s skills have been showcased on Global News, 16×9, The Marilyn

Welcome to episode 355 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Matthias Rose. In this episode, we discuss ejaculatory control and its benefits, the challenges in redefining the concept of orgasm and the initial challenges people may face when learning ejaculatory control.  Since 2012, Matthias Rose has been a prominent figure in neo-tantric sacred sexuality and classical tantric spirituality, serving as a teacher, guide, healer, and practitioner. His transformative journey with Tantra has taken him beyond traditional teachings, leading him to provide guidance primarily focused on relationships, sexuality, masculinity, and spirituality through a tantric lens.   As a Relationship Coach, Matthias Rose collaborates with individuals seeking to revamp their relational lives, including finding new partners, healing existing relationships, or exploring fresh possibilities. His expertise spans ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, trust repair, deepening emotional and sexual intimacy, and aligning wit

Welcome to episode 354 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with David Chambers. In this episode, we discuss the challenges faced by individuals in their pursuit of enhanced sexual experiences. We explore a myriad of factors, ranging from psychological challenges such as performance anxiety and body image concerns to physical issues like cardiovascular health and the impact of medications.  David Chambers embarked on his journey into the world of relationship coaching driven by a sincere desire to escape the anguish of failed relationships, conquer commitment fears, and infuse his life with genuine joy.   Growing up in a single-parent, female-dominated household, he grappled with understanding masculinity and healthy romantic partnerships. His twenties were characterized by empty encounters aimed at gaining validation and confidence, alongside an aversion to commitment rooted in the dread of rejection or making the wrong choice. Consequently, his relationships were marred by toxicity, conf

Welcome to episode 353 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Eric FitzMedrud. In this episode, we discuss Dr. FitzMedrud's book The Better Man, exploring the intricacies of consent, emotional processes and emotional skills and addressing low interest in sex through open communication and cooperation.  Dr. Eric FitzMedrud hails from Minneapolis, where his formative years were enriched by the diversity that sparked his passion for issues of inclusivity. Following his high school years, he embarked on a transformative journey to India as part of the Rotary International Youth Exchange Program. In Colorado, where he pursued his college education, he encountered the love of his life, his future wife. His horizons expanded further during his college years when he embarked on a Semester at Sea, offering him a broader perspective on the world.   Dr. FitzMedrud's path to becoming a licensed psychologist (PSY23669) evolved from a scholarly interest in spirituality and human developme

Welcome to episode 352 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Keira Barr. In this episode, we discuss ways in which couples can approach skinny dipping, analyzing the things that may hold you back from new experiences and how you can transition more holistic view of sex and sexuality.  Dr. Keira Barr is a prominent leader in women’s medicine – creating a bridge between hormones, skin and mind-body medicine to optimize women’s mid-life experience. A fierce patient advocate and completely dedicated to uncovering the root cause of hormonal imbalances, Dr. Barr empowers women worldwide to take control of their health and their hormones in menopause.    She is an international speaker, best selling author, clinical educator, and considered a leading authority on women’s health. As a former Assistant Clinical Professor at UC Davis in the departments of dermatology and pathology, editorial reviewer of multiple leading medical journals, medical advisor within the personal care and tech comm

Welcome to episode 351 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Douglas Weiss. In this episode, we discuss betrayal in relationships, how therapeutic polygraphs can help in rebuilding trust and the value of intentional rituals and emotional intimacy to create a strong relationship.  Dr. Douglas Weiss is a psychologist and the founder of Heart to Heart Counseling Center, which specializes in the treatment of sexual addicts, intimacy anorexics and their spouses. He has counseled with sex addicts and their partners for almost three decades. Heart to Heart Counseling Center maintains weekly 3 and 5 Day Intensives that couples fly in from all over the world to attend, dozens of weekly groups, hundreds of weekly appointments with 16 counselors on staff. Dr. Weiss personally continues to provide 5 Day Intensives at the Center. Dr. Weiss has been in recovery for over 34 years, he and all of the counselors at Heart to Heart verify their sobriety with regular polygraphs.   Dr. Weiss has authore

Welcome to episode 350 of the Sexology Podcast! I am absolutely delighted to have Sophie Saint Thomas as our guest today. In this episode, we will delve into the fascinating topic of multiple orgasms, explore the rich tapestry of sexual experiences beyond the realm of orgasms, and uncover the crucial role that psychological arousal plays in enhancing overall pleasure.  Sophie Saint Thomas is a New York City-based journalist and author originally from the U.S. Virgin Islands. She is published in GQ, Playboy, VICE, Cosmopolitan, Forbes, Allure, Glamour, Marie Claire, High Times, Nylon, Refinery29, Complex, Harper’s Bazaar, PRIDE Magazine, SELF, and more. Her writing focuses on sex, drugs, and rock ‘n’ roll as well as the occult and other subcultures.   Saint Thomas is the author of multiple books, including Finding Your Higher Self: Your Guide to Cannabis for Self-Care, The Little Book of CBD for Self-Care, and Sex Witch: Magickal Spells for Love, Lust, and Self-Protection.      In this episode, you will hear: 

Welcome to episode 349 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Ruth Ramsay about strip teasing, ways to create a contrasting story or role to spice things up, how you can experiment with personas for excitement and the importance of prior communication to prevent discomfort.  In 2001, Ruth Ramsay began her journey at the London School of Striptease, forsaking journalism for the empowering allure of the art. Over 12 eventful years, she danced, performed globally, taught, modeled, and advocated for adult entertainment workers' rights. She also championed erotic rights for people with disabilities, earning an Erotic Award.   During this time, Ruth learned unexpected lessons in sexual empowerment. As a striptease teacher, she saw students bloom and audiences embrace their sexuality. This journey boosted confidence and joy across life's facets.   After meeting her soulmate, Ruth left the erotic industry, prioritizing her stepfamily and fitness training. When her stepchildren left for

Welcome to episode 348 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Pamela Madsen about the concept of the erotic equation, practicing arousal, expanding pleasure and insights on erotic learning and the ongoing nature of exploration.  At the age of 43, Pamela Madsen's life seemed fulfilling: a devoted marriage that had its roots in young love, two cherished sons, and a thriving career as a prominent advocate addressing fertility challenges. However, beneath the surface, a persistent and restless yearning for something more, something profoundly personal, stirred within her. Despite her deep affection for her husband and a firm stance against infidelity, Pamela recognized an undeniable truth – the need for a significant and transformative change.   In her captivating autobiography titled "Shameless," Pamela Madsen shifts the spotlight onto her own journey. Within its pages, she candidly shares the path she navigated towards a newfound sense of completeness encompassing her sexualit

Welcome to episode 347 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey about sex in public, ways to incorporate novelty in relationships, understanding a culture's role in shaping attitudes towards public sex and balancing the thrill of exhibitionism with ethical and legal considerations.  Dr Lori Beth Bisbey is an Advanced GSRD (gender, sex, relationship diversity) therapist, sex & intimacy coach and psychologist whose expertise lies in working with individuals, couples, and groups to explore their sexuality, gender and relationship styles, discover a deeper level of sexual congruence, heal from past trauma, as well as create more meaningful, pleasurable, exciting, and authentic intimate relationships.   On a mission to create an open dialogue about sex, relationships, and self-expression, Dr Lori Beth is the specialist relationship therapist guiding couples on Open House: The Great Sex Experiment (Firecracker Films, Channel 4) and the host of the popular podcast The

Welcome to episode 346 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Andrea Balboni. In this episode, we discuss how tantric practices involve a mindful approach to intimacy and sex, emphasizing presence and deep connection with your partner.  Andrea Balboni, is a certified Sex, Love & Couples Coach at Zoë Clews & Associates.She specializes in helping couples create a thriving connected relationship and deeply satisfying intimacy. She also works with single individuals to build their confidence in dating and help them create new healthy relationships.Andrea believes that modern relationships offer us an opportunity to experience pleasure, love and connection as well as an opportunity to heal and to grow. Conflict and challenge can transform into deep connection, understanding and love of another – and also offer valuable insights for a richer self-knowing and awareness within.Andrea looks forward to supporting you in creating a healthy partnership that feels both nourishing and excitin

Welcome to episode 345 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Leigh Cowart. In this episode, we discuss the fascinating world of temperature play and its role in enhancing sensation and pleasure during erotic encounters. Temperature play involves using heat and cold as sensory and emotional intensifiers, ranging from ice cubes, hot wax, fire play, to getting in and out of a hot tub or experiencing cold rain.  Leigh Cowart is a researcher and journalist with more than ten years of experience. They have been writing for Popular Science since 2021. They cover bodies, brains, and what science can teach us about our inner lives.    Cowart’s work has appeared in The Washington Post, New York Magazine, Buzzfeed News, Hazlitt, Wired, and other outlets. Their book, Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose, has been featured in The New York Times, NPR, The Wall Street Journal, The New Yorker, and others. Before becoming a journalist, Cowart was immersed academia, doing research o

Welcome to episode 344 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Melanie Curtin. In this episode, we discuss her study on sex problems and experiences with 3000 participants, highlighted the top issues faced by both men and women in their sex lives. For women, pain and difficulty in reaching orgasm were common concerns, while premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction were prominent issues for men. The study also revealed how communication about these challenges played a crucial role in sexual relationships.  Melanie is a sex researcher and men’s coach with a Master’s in Communication from Stanford University.  She is a columnist at Inc. magazine, and has been published or seen on TODAY, Huffington Post, Forbes, Business Insider, The New York Observer, and more.  She has been coaching men for over six years, and specializes in bringing a woman’s perspective to men, so they can connect and succeed with women in fun, inviting, and meaningful ways that lead to fulfilling sex and relations

Welcome to episode 343 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Suzannah Weiss. In this episode, we discuss the growing popularity of ASMR in the realm of sex and sexuality, ways to incorporate ASMR into your sex life and additional resources for further exploration.  Suzannah Weiss's writing on gender, sexuality, love, and social justice has been widely published across various platforms. With over 8,700 articles to her name, her work has appeared in notable publications such as The New York Times wedding section, Glamour, Teen Vogue, Vice, Complex, Refinery29, Bustle, The Washington Post, and New York Magazine.   Aside from her writing career, Suzannah is also a sexologist and AASECT-certified sex educator. She offers private coaching and courses to help individuals enhance their sex lives and relationships. Additionally, she provides mentorship for writers, consulting for PR professionals, and works as a birth doula.   Suzannah holds a Bachelor of Science in Cognitive Neuroscience