Sexology

Welcome to episode 382 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to chat with Dr. Joli Hamilton. In our conversation we delve into the intricate dynamics of jealousy within relationships, whether they be monogamous or non-monogamous. Dr. Hamilton's insights shed light on the nuances of sexual jealousy, distinguishing it from mere envy and highlighting its role as a multifaceted emotional response that signifies a perceived risk to the bond we hold dear. As we discuss this sensitive topic, we uncover strategies to navigate the profound emotional hurdles that jealousy can present, while also confronting the societal stigmas and misconceptions that often surround this complex emotion. Join us as we unravel the layers of jealousy and explore ways to foster healthier and more secure connections in our intimate relationships.Dr. Joli Hamilton is the relationship coach for couples who color outside the lines & founder of The Year of Opening. She is a research psychologist, TEDx speaker, best-selling author,

Welcome to episode 381 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Danielle Bezalel, MPH. Dainelle is a sex educator and podcaster, and in this conversation, she highlights the importance of medically accurate sex education, the challenges and rewards of teaching sex ed to different age groups, addressing myths and misinformation, and the role of consent and pleasure in education.   Danielle Bezalel wears many hats as the brains behind the Sex Ed with DB Podcast. This intersectional, feminist podcast is a platform where Bay Area voices share their real stories, aiming to revolutionize the way we discuss sex.   In 2014, she proudly graduated from UC Berkeley with a degree in Film and Media Studies. Later, she pursued her Masters of Public Health from Columbia University, specializing in sexuality and reproductive health, which she successfully completed in May 2023.  When she's not busy with her podcast, Danielle enjoys showcasing her singing talents as part of her folk band, Happnstance, based in

Welcome to episode 380 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Lauren Streicher, MD an expert in women's health and menopause. In this episode we discuss the common changes women face during perimenopause and menopause, including genital urinary syndrome of menopause (GSM), painful intercourse, diminished libido, and hot flashes.   Dr. Streicher emphasizes that while menopause brings various challenges, effective solutions exist for each symptom. She highlights the importance of hormone therapy (HT) for relieving symptoms and improving quality of life, as well as the use of lubricants, vaginal estrogens, and other medical interventions for managing painful intercourse.  Lauren Streicher, MD, is a clinical professor at Northwestern University and founding Medical Director of the Northwestern Medicine Center for Sexual Medicine and Menopause, she also serves as a menopause practitioner and Senior Research Fellow at the Kinsey Institute. Besides her roles in academia and research, she advises or

Welcome to episode 379 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Sadaf Lodhi, who discusses the inadequacies of sexual education within the medical field, especially concerning women's sexual health issues during premenopausal and postmenopausal stages.  Dr. Sadaf Lodhi, with over two decades as an OBGYN in New York, champions women's holistic health, blending her professional expertise with personal insights as a Muslim woman. She extends her practice beyond conventional medicine, focusing on comprehensive well-being and sexual empowerment, encouraging self-discovery and autonomy in sexual matters.   Dr. Lodhi's educational path includes an honors degree in Biochemistry from the University of Michigan, Dearborn, and a Doctorate of Osteopathic Medicine from Michigan State University College of Osteopathic Medicine, earned in 2000. After completing her residency at St. Joseph Mercy in Michigan, she moved to New York, engaging in diverse medical roles across private practices, hospita

Welcome to episode 378 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Shyama Mathews. In this episode, Dr. Mathews discusses women's sexual health and wellness during premenopausal and menopausal stages. She also highlights the importance of patience, exploring new ways of stimulation, and the use of lubricants and sex toys to enhance the sexual experience during these years. Dr. Shyama Mathews champions the philosophy that "Care Comes First," with a profound commitment to the well-being of women who often endure significant discomfort, pain, and sacrifices in their quality of life to meet the daily needs of their families and careers. Dr. Mathews is a staunch advocate for patient EDUCATION and EMPOWERMENT, holding the conviction that patients must be fully informed to make the best decisions for their health. She understands that without a comprehensive knowledge of their bodies and the nature of their symptoms, women cannot actively participate in selecting the most appropriate treatme

Welcome to episode 377 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Melissa Vogel. In this episode, Melissa shares her personal journey from losing herself post-pregnancy to rediscovering her strength and confidence by embracing a holistic approach to wellness. She highlights the importance of weight training, especially for women entering menopause, and offers insights into how women can navigate fasting in tune with their menstrual cycles.  Melissa Vogel is the owner and operator of Melissa Vogel Fitness, LLC. With over 20 years of experience as a certified Personal Trainer and Group Fitness Instructor, she helps busy moms get fit through mindset work, vision, balance, nutrition, and exercise.   Melissa hosts the Bomb Mom Podcast, featuring various speakers on health topics to inspire listeners to achieve their goals.   She fearlessly discusses taboo subjects to empower others to prioritize their health. Melissa, a model, actress, and busy mom of six, continues to inspire women on their fitness jour

Welcome to episode 376 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome back Dr. Sara E. Hill. In this episode, Sara discusses the dynamics, stigmas, and societal perspectives surrounding age gap relationships, particularly focusing on older women dating younger men.   Dr. Hill explores the double standards that exist for women compared to men in these relationships and the reasons behind the predatory language often used. She emphasizes the importance of mutual attraction, genuine connection, and the benefits both parties find in such relationships, including open-mindedness and emotional maturity.  Dr. Sarah Hill, a distinguished research psychologist and professor, possesses extensive knowledge in the fields of women's health and sexual psychology. Her expertise lies at the convergence of evolutionary biology, social psychology, and neuroscience.   Dr. Hill's research endeavors focus on unraveling the intricate connections between hormones, the immune system, and the environment, particularly i

Welcome to episode 375 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Marissa Nelson. In this episode, Marissa discusses the issue of sexual rejection based on a story she shared in her TED Talk, how trauma and other life changes can impact sexual functioning and the importance of seeking support from a sex therapist or coach.   Marissa Nelson, an experienced therapist, has helped numerous couples overcome life's challenges and strengthen their connection. With her extensive knowledge of couples' issues and her approachable style, she makes couples and sex therapy engaging, warm, and enjoyable.   Marissa is highly regarded internationally and is the founder of IntimacyMoons Couples Retreats, which have been recognized as one of the top couples retreats worldwide by reputable sources such as The New York Times, Women's Health, Fodor's Travel, and Travel Curator. She has also been featured in more than 100 national and international media publications, including the Washington Pos

Welcome to episode 374 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh. In today's episode, Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh discusses her book and her new model of emerging love. The model focuses on six main ingredients for a successful relationship: attraction, trust, shared vision, respect, compassion, and acts of being loving towards one another. She expands on the role of attraction and the concept of building on physical chemistry to create sexual harmony.  Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh, a distinguished expert in Sexuality, Relationships, and Intercultural Fluency, is recognized for her global contributions as a speaker, author, and consultant. Dr. Nasserzadeh's media presence is notable, having created and hosted "The Whispers" for BBC World Service, a pioneering program on sexuality in the Middle East, and featured in major outlets like CNN, NPR, and Harper’s Bazaar.  She is also an accomplished author, with her latest book, "Love By Design," based on extensive r

Welcome to episode 373 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Rena Martine. In today's episode, Rena discusses her personal journey that led her from a conventional career as a Deputy District Attorney specializing in hard crimes to her current path as an intimacy coach and sexual wellness advocate. She discusses the importance of self-compassion, body adoration, media awareness, and perspective in cultivating a healthier self-image and deeper intimacy in sexual relationships.  Rena Martine, a native Los Angeleno, now resides in Echo Park, near her partner. Passionate about smelly cheese, dramatic cinema, and 60’s music, she enjoys dancing and spending time with her Siamese cat, Lucha ("Chooch"). Rena often connects with loved ones, radiating happiness and occasionally enjoying a cocktail.   Holding a Juris Doctor from Loyola Law School and a Bachelor of Arts in Sociology from California State University Los Angeles, Rena excelled as a law review editor and author. She also

Welcome to episode 372 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Amanda Pasciucco. In today's episode, Amanda emphasizes the importance of trust, communication, and thorough knowledge of knot tying for both the rigger and the receiver. The conversation touches on the history of Shibari, its cultural relevance, and its sensual, alluring nature. She also warns of potential risks and mistakes, suggesting that the art should be learned from a master or an experienced practitioner.  Dr. Amanda Pasciucco, known as "The Sex Healer," is a renowned catalyst for reigniting passion in romantic and sexual relationships. With over 15 years of experience, she has helped thousands of individuals and couples transform their sexual lives. As a Latina international clinician and speaker, Dr. Pasciucco has been featured in prestigious publications such as Psychology Today, Good Therapy, and PsychCentral, as well as prominent media outlets like CNN, TLC, and Playboy.   Her expertise extends to wor

Welcome to episode 371 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Erika Lust. In today's episode, Erika discusses her journey and perspective on creating ethical adult films.  A political science student interested in gender studies and sexuality; Erika was dissatisfied with the male-centric portrayal of women in conventional pornography. She believes ethical porn production caters to the woman's gaze, portrays relatable pleasure, and presents a broader scope of sexual experiences.  Erika Lust, an acclaimed independent erotic filmmaker, is renowned for her sex-positive adult cinema that challenges gender stereotypes and rejects harmful fetishizations. With a focus on relatable characters and realistic intimate scenes, she offers a groundbreaking alternative to mainstream porn. Over the past two decades, the Lust brand has flourished, with Erika directing six feature films and series, as well as over 130 short films and producing approximately 150 more.   In 2015, Erika delivered a c

Welcome to episode 370 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Natasha Helfer. In today's episode, we discuss the negative impact of sexual shame often fostered in religious societies, touching on topics such as: religious trauma, community expectations on sexual behavior and the shunning of self-determination.  Natasha Helfer is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist with over 20 years of experience in treating individuals, couples, and families. She creates an approachable and safe space, often using humor, for discussing sensitive topics. Helfer specializes in assisting clients with interpersonal relationships, sexual development, and navigating religious or spiritual journeys. She is adept at supporting individuals whether they choose to remain in or leave their faith communities, respecting all religious choices.   Helfer is a seasoned speaker, presenting at national and professional conferences, universities, and hosting retreats, training, and workshops. She has a broad experience

Welcome to episode 369 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Stephanie Bathurst. In today's episode, we discuss various aspects of pelvic floor function, emphasizing how aging and factors like obesity, constipation, and physical trauma can weaken it, consequently affecting sexual health and leading to issues like erectile dysfunction and chronic pelvic pain.  Dr. Stephanie Bathurst is a dedicated clinician and coach, celebrated for her role as the founder of Bathurst Family Therapy™. She thrives in her role as a support system and guide for healing, aspiring to assist others through the information and advice shared on her site, fostering self-discovery.   Dr. Bathurst specializes in working with couples and relationships, focusing on identifying and eliminating destructive communication patterns. She develops personalized plans to assist her clients in shaping their ideal-self within their partnerships. Her expertise extends to working with various relationship dynamics, inclu

Welcome to episode 368 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Katherine Bejanyan. In today's episode, we discuss how cultural and religious backgrounds shape individual expectations in relationships, the impact of early family dynamics, societal norms on intimacy, and the importance of effective communication.  Katherine Bejanyan is deeply passionate about relationships and is dedicated to helping others in this realm. Her professional activities include providing relationship counseling for both couples and singles.   In her role as a relationship expert and consultant for an exclusive dating agency, Bejanyan offers specialized guidance and insights. Additionally, she contributes her knowledge and perspectives on relationships through her writings for the Huffington Post.   Her primary objective is to continuously deepen her understanding of relationships and enhance her skills in assisting others with their relationship challenges.  Understanding more about relationships in cross-

Welcome to episode 367 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Ricky Arenson. In today's episode, Dr. Arenson will be sharing his expertise on his recently published book titled "Women are Superior to Men." We will delve into the motivations and revelations that inspired his work, as well as delve into the complexities of relationships and the significance of comprehending dynamic interactions.  Dr. Ricky Arenson, raised under the shadow of Table Mountain in Cape Town, was deeply influenced by the societal divisions of Apartheid, fueling his commitment to bridging gaps in today's "identity politics." Diagnosed with ADHD in childhood, he channeled his energy into creative pursuits like drawing and poetry, developing a unique perspective that later enriched his personal and professional life.   Meeting his wife in medical school, Dr. Arenson's relationship blossomed from her initial academic encouragement into a deep admiration for her roles as a wife and mo

Welcome to episode 366 of Sexology Podcast! Today we're delving into New Year's resolutions and their impact on relationships. Our expert guests share tips to revitalize your connection, making 2024 a year of passion.  In this episode you will hear from Dr. Laurie Petito, Dr. Jess O'Reilly, David Khalili, Ken Page, Dr. Lonnie Barback, Dr. Laurie Mintz, Diane Gleim and Gigi Engle who share their insightful thoughts on new year's tips and resolutions for 2024 that include:  New Year's resolution tips on sexual health and advocacy Tips to simplify complex sexual health and relationship subjects Key skills for overall life satisfaction and improved relationships Effective communication tips for partners The importance of conversations in a relationship Understanding porn literacy Crucial skills often overlooked in relationships Stress management techniques  Stress Management Toolkit https://nazanin-moali.mykajabi.com/opt-in   Afternoon Delight Event https://www.eventbrite.com/e/afternoon-delig

Welcome to episode 365 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Amy Baldwin and April Lampert of the Shameless Sex Podcast. In this episode, we delve into the significance of embracing shifts in our sexual identity, suggestions for discovering trustworthy adult toys, and confidently expressing our desires without any sense of shame.  Amy is an expert in the field of Sex and Relationship Coaching and Sex Education. She is dedicated to spreading the message of embracing pleasure-focused sexuality education without any shame.  On the other hand, April is not only a motivational speaker but also a prominent figure in the sex-toy industry, having established herself as a sex toy mogul. Together, April and Amy have joined forces to create the Shameless Sex Podcast.  This podcast aims to inspire individuals to love themselves unconditionally, embrace their sexual empowerment, and foster shame-free intimacy. With a playful twist, they share real-life experiences and divulge all the details.    In

Welcome to episode 364 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Emily Jamea. In this episode, we discuss the special nature of vacation sex, emphasizing the benefits of breaking routine, reducing stress, and fostering emotional connection.   With over fifteen years of experience in sex and relationship therapy, Dr. Emily Jamea, a licensed marriage and family therapist, LPC, and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, has earned recognition for her expertise, featured in esteemed publications such as Oprah Magazine, CNN, USA Today, NBC, CBS, Men’s Fitness, SELF, and Women’s Health. Actively contributing to Psychology Today and HealthyWomen.org, Dr. Jamea explores the correlation between flow and sexual satisfaction in her academic research.  As the host of the popular Love & Libido podcast, she shares insights and regularly writes columns for Healthy Women and Psychology Today. Engaging with her audience on social media (@dremilyjamea), she is set to release her upcoming book, "Anatomy of

Welcome to episode 363 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Heidi Gee. In this episode, we discuss overcoming discomfort with oral sex, how to approach the 69 position and learning to gently approach to clitoris.  Heidi Gee is a dedicated Sexologist and Relationship Therapist, who brings over 15 years of experience to her passionate mission. In her unwavering belief, EVERYONE, irrespective of background, gender, religion, sexual preference, or pizza topping choice, deserves a fulfilling relationship and sex life.   Driven by personal growth, navigating heartbreaks, and overcoming challenges, Heidi found her calling – supporting others in their journeys towards healthy relationships with themselves, others, and sex. Beyond her professional expertise, Heidi is also a qualified reiki master, adding a holistic touch to her approach.   During her downtime, Heidi immerses herself in music, theatre, and art. Her love for travel and a fondness for Italian, Indian, and Mexican cuisine are comp