Random Ish W Sonja

Finally, I have a moment!  Lol, I have been enjoying the fact my household grew a bit, but it’s left me figuring out how to manage my time and energy so I can still get ish done.  Man, I forgot how much it takes to have your family around the cooking, cleaning, driving, and the best part, hugs, and kisses.   In this episode, choppin up a bit of the Markel debacle with the Royals, I got to DJ a wedding on the day, the growth of my family, and some other interesting topics. Like are we now going to stop settling for just the image of a good life and start really living the good life? I think Meghan and Harry are really a good example of what it means to be true to yourself vs living for the facade. As we already know it is going to work out just fine for them.  The other Meghan and her ding dong comments I just cant with her. But, the point of bringingg it up is Whoopi's reaction to the whole thing. If you haven't seen yet where you been? Or watch it on the Video version of Random Ish o

I love when I get to talk with Powerful Women!!  In this episode, I'm chatting with Jahidah Diaab. She is a Teacher, Writer, Producer, Author, and all-around badass!!! She has just written a children’s book called the Blended Garden which teaches children and adults all about the importance of inclusion.  Join us as we discuss many topics! Her play, which I was blessed to be in for one of the annual runs, Schooling, Diversity Inclusion, Homeschooling. What to do if your children are being bullied by their teacher, and of course the book and its meaning.  Plus, what if there was a different ending? Good times and lots of nuggets in here, I hope you laugh and talk back to the audio! Get your copy of the Book The Blended Garden on Amazon Kindle. IG: @RandomIshwithSonja Jahidah's FB: The Blended Garden

In this episode, we are chatting with Violinist John Randolph. I saw him on IG doing a hip hop song on the violin and had to talk to him!!! Turns out he has been playing since he was just 5 years old. Interesting story on how that started. His music range goes from classical, to hip hop, and R&B music. We chat about his music journey, and how his piece on racial injustice got the attention of Gayle King and CBS This morning. We also find out something only other violinists know. You can watch this episode on Roku!!! just download the channel MBE!!! Please leave a 5 star rating!!! Thanks for listening. @RandomIshwithSonja @Manifestbeautytv

The Last Hours of the Trump Era!! We are moving into new time periods, the Universe, our Country heck us as humanity. I have been working on the new platform, trying not to get stuck in the hiccups that have been showing up. I’m all about energy so I am discovering there are some unwanted vibes in my mind. I keep attracting some interesting people. I talked about one of the crazy folks on the new platform on Roku, and how that guy is trying to extort $$ from me, but I am not going to harp on that. What I do want to get all up in is the spacecraft Juno heard an FM radio signal from one of Jupiter’s moons. They say it does not mean alien life, but we remember storm area 51 last year, and they have done the first teleportation. So, I’m just saying hello 5th dimension. Beam me up Scotty is fixin to happen. What if we are living in different dimensions? Wait go smoke real quick so you open up your mind lol. I was watching Ancient Civilizations, and they are saying the Sphinx is like 12,000 years old…They are findi

Hey Hey Hey! I seriously recorded 3 different episodes to share this week, but they were just rants, and then the shit hit the fan.  So, since I am following some photographers who were actually there and saw the pictures, I feel like I gotta say something. BUT, not about what happened.  I want to talk about the age of Aquarius, the 5th dimension, the ascent, the light coming towards us. I think the reason we’re are going thru this is now it’s time for the shackles to come off. It’s time for the darkness to be seen. For those who oppress to be exposed and new change to be allowed. There can no longer be denial about oppression. We are all coming from the same energy, we are different reflections of light but we are coming from the same energy people can cut off the energy, but it’s time to realize we are one.  The chaos to some can be horrible to others it’s an opportunity for change. The surfer and the storm at the beach is a perfect example. So, I am going to hold the placemark that this is g

In this episode I'm chatting with you by myself, excited that we are still getting it together for the new platform, but I am not making any announcements until we are there. Going back to my old ways. So much going on this year…we have lost some greats, better said they transitioned into power. Speaking of power, finally, the official tally for our next President has been announced. It’s about time! Time, I have been waiting for two weeks for a card to arrive. The USPS is in gridlock, the stories we read how the funding is running out, mailboxes being taken away, or the pictures of mail sitting in warehouses. WTF??? Another WTF, how is it that all these months later there has not been any aid sent to people? They say this has hit Single women, & minorities, and the elderly the hardest. So F us huh? At least the vaccine is here, I saw the video of the first one who took it, I, along with a bunch of people, waiting to see those side effect. I have faith that these people involved have the best intentions,

Checking in with Andre he has been hard at work creating his swag capsules! Get yours today! We are bringing it back round to our last convo about the Cardi divorce, we were right! I saw the actual video of Offset dancing where she accidentally said his name. Basically, they told on themselves. I’m still giving her the benefit of the doubt, maybe she was just trying to call his bluff. BUT recall we didn’t know nuthin about Kylie’s pregnancy. So, you can have a private life as a celeb. Switching subjects, The Don. What are you doing? Why are you fighting this so much? Why are you still seeking money from your supporters? What the hell survey or ad did I sign up for that I am getting these emails? So, the Don thinks the Democrat’s rigged this whole thing with Covid to ensure a Biden Harris win. UGH. How about the people spoke up as a whole to go for change, rather than accept the BS. I am happy because this is what I wrote about in the books that era was there to get us to lean into what we want rather than arg

So, it’s election nite, before results come in officially, I just wanted to share a couple thoughts. I experienced the intimidation tactics at the poll, the guys driving by super-fast with the flags flying around the polls. I did look up info on can a person promote their candidate inside the polls beforehand. Of course, I ran into a guy with a mask on. No big deal, I told the volunteers, cuz I’m not having it anymore. Later, when I went to the store, talking with folks, it was mentioned that must have been you! I was told “ yea some guy came in here all upset that some black chic told on him and he was made to cover the mask at the polls today.” Yes, I did. I’m tired. I’m tired of certain people thinking they are the only ones who love this country, I’m tired of people who claim to love God, yet hold people down, making life more difficult for folks that are different than them. I adhere to the laws of nature, we are all family, not races. We are in a time of shifting so the dead ish will be brought to the s

Hello, Hello, Hello, Sorry for the break, ya girl has been going through some ish!!!!!! My issue along with a post I saw and what happened today has me ready to speak. The whole world is changing hopefully for the better, or at least for those of us who have been doing the inner work. It’s time for us to stop accepting old patterns of thought that hurt us as a whole. Today I’m talking about women, specifically black women. I am so tired of the stereotype of the angry black woman. ALL women get it, when you know what you want and go for it, you can get labeled as a bitch or aggressive, rather than assertive or knowing your vision. I saw a post online of some young men saying their preference in dating, now if you have listened before or if you know me then you know I am down with the swirl. That is not the issue, it’s the reason these men gave for not wanting to date black women. Take listen from their own mouths. Now to keep it real, I have thought a similar thought about black men, they don’t know how to dat

Checking in with Andre, it’s been so long since we recorded! We’re getting used to the new normal, are we okay with expressing happiness now? Some folks are still uber cautious and we should be careful, but are we getting programmed to be apart? Are we getting programmed into fear? I saw a few hundred people in the mall and I was not feeling being there, I normally really only like crowds when I’m behind the booth or on a stage, BUT I felt like I had been programmed. So many issues are being brought to our attention and then just disappear… Is there a sinister plot going on? Is there a conspiracy going on? This is the time to exercise our faith and keep our human rights!!! There seems to be a spiritual fight going on for what is right and wrong in the world. Speaking of the World, how is the rest of the World dealing with covid? A neighbor told me we may have it better than we think. Cardi B, so everyone was talking about her divorce we weigh in as well why not?? Is it a stunt just to be talked about? Is it r

I couldn’t stay away!!! We’re on hiatus as we prep for this new platform the show will be on. Coming soon this fall! BUT, with so much going on I had to chime in with my two cents! With voting season right around the corner, This is turning out to be a very important election. I’m getting emails from the GOP, always good to know what both sides are doing. Have you Heard the rumors that Trump is the only person who can stop the New World Order from happening. WTF!?! In some other WTF news Cardi B has filed for divorce, are we finally getting tired of the worldwide accepted notion that men are just going to cheat? Women are supposed to deal with it. I really believe it takes a special person to be in a monogamous relationship. Is it possible that women can turn the tide on bringing monogamy back? Or is she just trying to not get her bluff called on?  Is it the D that makes women stay? There is a picture of Fabulous the rapper floating around that will make you think so.

Introducing our newest family member…Andre! Today's episode is all about breaking the ice, us getting to know each other better… Drinks anyone?!?!? It was crazy hot in my lil living room with no air while we were recording. I happened to be wearing a long ponytail, I had gotten so many compliments earlier that day I needed an impromptu photo shoot when I was out at a fast food place and sent those pics to some dudes. Feeling myself. We all are now getting some long ponytails because it makes you feel like a goddess!! We share what we did for the 4th..do we celebrate or Nah? What is with everyone moving to the Carolina’s??? Them laws will have you moving BACK up North!! Back to the hair really I’m am about to let my hair grow just so I can get a natural 24’ in pony. We seem to be a lil obsessed with long hair, so long we can trip on it, it wouldn’t be embarrassing to trip on long hair, but it would be funny. So, we are putting our pride to the side and sharing some of our most embarrassing moments; mine involv

We made it to the end of June!! Even though social media is slowing down on BLM still make calls to the reps of Kentucky to punish the cops for not making sure they were at the correct address when they shot Brianna Taylor. The number is 502-595-2300. On a lighter note I have some hot ass tea for you! The let me see your face guy…new developments have happened and I’m sharing with y’all!!! As folks are saying get in here friend~ oooooooooooohhhhh!!! The Tea The Tea The Tea!! Also, we’ve been talking dating apps I did sign up for one… research time! I mean even during the pre rona time I hardly go anywhere, If Mr. right knocked on my door I’d ignore him. Commit, or not to commit that is the question. We have some ideas on relationships, single, mingle or monogamous. Rona Dating is this causing exes to get back????  Cuz we all see that Koko and Trist have been quarantining together, Plus her BDAY just passed so did mine!!! Nobody wants to really go out, we chat up what we would do for our bday if we had Kardash

In the middle of the quarantine I recorded some thoughts on how the world went off on Justin Timberlake about the 24 hr parenting in his big ol' 2nd house, nobody felt for him. 24 hr parenting in a mansion is way different than a 1000 sq ft place the mommy mommy mommy look at me is no joke. Bet he wouldn’t say that now! Also, I may be wrong but I thought Ellen’s comment was funny, how are comics gonna do their job if we’re so sensitive?I get it it’s real out here but we need laughter. I don’t know about you but I wasn’t ready…I only had a month worth of being okay but I have hope… The world is healing itself, the birds I’ve been hearing like crazy, New Delhi, Los Angeles, Venice cleared up, now we are going back to work, we need to WANT to work with our planet. The changes we’ve seen will we keep them up? Always looking for the silver lining. Being a manifesting beauty person doesn’t mean completely ignoring what’s going on but using what’s going on as a catalyst. My current catalyst finances. For the past co

The girls are back together!! Discussing the reopening, our state opens June 20th, the new normal, it seems we are creating a new better world.  In the wake of the protests and the murder of George Floyd, damn the looters,  we peaceful protesters are making a point. Police officers are supposed to be seen as heroes, they do have a dangerous job, but the systematic racism has clouded their judgment. Looting not the answer, but why do humans only respond to violence? Kaepernick was kneeling and that was a problem. Why are we mad at Jay Z? Is it possible people are clout chasing talking smack to keep the BS going? Crab mentality my take on his comment, past kneeling, wasn’t a dig at Kaepernick, he was saying at this time we are past that, it’s time for real change. Speaking of change, George Clooney wrote an essay that touched us, stood up for us, and now we need a George Clooney in our lives!  No disrespect Amal, your man is everything. All we want is Equality. It’s 2020 it is time to fight for h

As the country staggers its reopening, this weekend proved some folks just wanna party! According to Slate magazine’s survey, more republicans are ready to get back to work than democrats. The pics from parties over the weekend Have me realizing it really will be a new normal. How will dating be??? Many of us were ready to get out and live our best single life and now???? Will we rub elbows? Either way, ladies don’t put all your eggs in his basket till he says and shows he’s wanting them eggs. Girl until then play play play. Maybe this new world will bring back courting and actual dating not DTF? I thought I’d be one of the first to get back out Yea, No. To work or not to work in public that is the question. Have you seen the video of the animals trying to escape? Us.  Should we party with masks? Is it possible the internet pics are old? You do you imma do me. But I do feel like we are being dumb in front of the world. Keeping my eyes on me what I’ve been working on,  and learning these past few wee

This episode: The light at the end of the tunnel of lockdown 2020?  Staying Safe at home.  Speaking of staying safe, I want to talk about women's safety, this topic is hitting close to home so it's time to maybe speak on some experience.  Independent women are not exempt from finding themselves in some serious shit.  Did our periods set us up to deal with pain in life? Even Expect it? I'mjustsaying we was born to deal with shit but not this! Love vs That Ain't love Hunny for women and men! Red Flags, Social media realistic points of view.  No love is worth giving yourself away, but do you realize you gave yourself away? Avoiding THAT TYPE Syndrome your path to new happiness.  THE GET OUT GAME PLAN if you're stuck and don't know how to leave this is how I did it 20 years ago and I have NOT attracted that since.  New Life New You. 

Day 1 million 500 thousand of lockdown 2020, how are you doing?? Me, I'm doing alright finding things to appreciate in the face of fear,  which is NOT always easy! This whole thing is not a hoax we need to focus on wanted not unwanted.  What I want, to be able to manifest wanted no matter what is going on around me, No matter who is around me. This is a time when we want to be very confident in the advice or words we share.   I was wondering how do we manifest when you have to spend the majority of your time inside?  Well, the universe/God showed up and showed out in the lil ways that matter the most. Sharing some manifest stories from last week.  Intention or satisfaction is the manifestation game?  

Since we're all pretty much stuck at home this is bringing out the best of those of us who grew up in the 90's. We got use to not having anything to do but watch tv.  Single folks are rejoicing right now. Sorry huge families.  Hope dealer- What is and Isn't Faith.  Having faith does not mean stand in front of a moving mac truck.  NYC gave us some rules on how to have safer sex with all that is going on.  Hey, we need to laugh and... Government and the Rona, there are some other implications we all know are associated with the current times no more talk of democrat or republican! This is a human issue. Also, Rent freeze for everyone much? With the bailouts does not that mean a freeze not deferment?  At least 1 month free and maybe deferred the rest. Some things we can do while home ALL Friggin Day...still get dressed still put on makeup do your nails & Clean your makeup brushes! This is the time for us to slow down, look for the light at the end of this tunnel and take care of