Spiritual Psychology With Renee Mckenna

Believe it or not, we all have the capacity to leave our body. Distraction, addiction, compulsions are often ways to "get out of ourselves." In Spiritual Psikology, it is observed that getting out of ourself is literal. But, where do we go when we are not present?Renee shares some fascinating client experiences and some of her own process in leaving and grounding in our physical being. Grounding in present time is the safest, most empowered place we can be.

A paradox is a statement, situation, or concept that appears self-contradictory or absurd at first but may reveal an underlying truth when examined more closely. In simpler terms, it's when two things that seem like they can't both be true actually coexist in a surprising or thought-provoking way. For me, the idea that Donald Trump could be a positive force is surprising and contradictory. And yet, from a safe distance, our despotic POTUS has been the single most powerful catalyst for growth and change in my life in the last 10 years. Join me as I unpack this "positive paradox," and hopefully inspire you to embrace hope and paradox in your own life.--⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Healing Trauma, my new 10 session course is available now!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠10 Sessions to bring the wounded parts of ourself out of suffering and into the peace, power & compassion of present time. This is a profoundly healing and transformative course that offers you

In this episode, we explore the powerful practice of Two-Way Prayer, a method that helps deepen your connection with the divine. By combining meditation, journaling, and active listening, Two-Way Prayer invites you to not only speak to a higher power but also hear its guidance. Whether you're seeking clarity, insight, or spiritual growth, this episode offers practical tips and reflections to help you begin or strengthen your practice. Tune in to learn how this simple yet transformative tool can bring peace and direction to your life.--⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Healing Trauma, my new 10 session course is available now!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠10 Sessions to bring the wounded parts of ourself out of suffering and into the peace, power & compassion of present time. This is a profoundly healing and transformative course that offers you the same depth and guidance I would provide in a series of individual sessions. Give yourself the gift of healing.--⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

In this episode, we look into Habit 7 of Stephen Covey's 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: "Sharpen the Saw." This habit emphasizes the importance of self-care and continuous growth in four key areas: physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual. By regularly renewing and rejuvenating ourselves, we maintain the energy and focus needed to be our most effective selves. Tune in to learn how prioritizing self-care can boost your overall well-being and long-term success.This is the last in my 8 part deep-dive into the practical, life-changing principles in Covey's amazing book. Check out episodes #231-237 for the full series.--⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Healing Trauma, my new 10 session course is available now!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠10 Sessions to bring the wounded parts of ourself out of suffering and into the peace, power & compassion of present time. This is a profoundly healing and transformative course that offers you the same depth and guidance I wo

Synergy is the idea that the combined efforts of a group or team produces greater results than individual efforts. It’s about collaboration and harnessing diverse strengths, perspectives, and talents to create something more powerful or effective than what could be achieved independently. In simple terms, 1+1 equals more than 2 when people work together harmoniously and creatively.Habit #6 ofThe 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, by Steven Covey, teaches us practical ways to create positive, synergistic relationships in both our personal and professional life, and how working together can create results that go far beyond what individuals can achieve alone. Join us to explore the transformative impact of synergy!--⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Healing Trauma, my new 10 session course is available now!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠10 Sessions to bring the wounded parts of ourself out of suffering and into the peace, power & compassion of present time. This is a profoundly healing

We all seek to be understood. Understanding is the key to true intimacy and the foundation of love, empathy and compassion. All good stuff.It's counter-intuitive, but when we seekfirst to understand others and then to be understood ourselves, we are growing in mature, healthy communication and connection.Habit #5 ofThe 7 Habits of Highly Effective People,by Steven Covey, teaches us that true communication starts with understanding others before expecting to be understood. Learn how shifting your focus from replying to truly listening can transform your relationships and leadership skills. Tune in for actionable insights and real-world examples!--⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Healing Trauma, my new 10 session course is available now!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠10 Sessions to bring the wounded parts of ourself out of suffering and into the peace, power & compassion of present time. This is a profoundly healing and transformative course that offers you the same depth and guidance

Much of our culture has a win/lose mentality, where if one person "wins," the other is a "loser." But when we learn to think win/win, we find this can be a much more beneficial mindset in all areas of our life. Join me as we explore Habit #4 of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People—Think Win-Win. Stephen Covey, uber successful businessman and teacher, emphasizes the importance of fostering a mindset of mutual benefit in all our interactions. We explore how adopting this "win-win" attitude strengthens relationships, creates trust, and leads to greater collaboration in both personal and professional settings. I tell some personal stories about power stealing, gossip, courage and integrity. Tune in to learn how to shift from a competitive to a cooperative mindset for lasting success. --⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Healing Trauma, my new 10 session course is available now!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠10 Sessions to bring the wounded parts of ourself ou

In this episode, we dive into Habit 3 of Stephen Covey's The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: "Put First Things First." We'll explore how prioritizing what's most important in your life can help you become more focused, organized, and productive. Whether it's your personal goals or your professional ambitions, we'll discuss strategies to manage time, energy, and attention so you can stay true to your highest priorities. Let’s get started! --Join me on⁠⁠⁠ Patreon⁠⁠⁠Check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ channel, interesting interviews and guided meditations, plus a different format to follow the Spiritual Psikology podcast.--⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Healing Trauma, my new 10 session course is available now!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠10 Sessions to bring the wounded parts of ourself out of suffering and into the peace, power & compassion of present time. This is a profoundly healing and transformative course tha

If we want to build a house, we need to have plans. If we want to get somewhere, it's important to know where we want to go. When we apply this very practical truth to our lives, we can become architects and navigators of our experience, rather than helpless victims of seemingly random fate.In part 3 of my 8 part series, we explore Habit #2 of Stephen Covey's masterpiece, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. Begin with the end in mind. This is simple wisdom for living a fulfilling and principle centered life based on what's most important to us.--Join me on⁠⁠ Patreon⁠⁠Check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ channel, interesting interviews and guided meditations, plus a different format to follow the Spiritual Psikology podcast.--⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Healing Trauma, my new 10 session course is available now!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠10 Sessions to bring the wounded parts of ourself out of suffering and into the peace,

When we are proactive, rather than reactive, we step out of old patterns and into more empowered, intentional experiences and relationships. Moving our focus and energy from our "circle of concern," to our "circle of influence," moves us from being a victim of circumstance, to a creator of opportunity. Join me in #2 of my 8 part series looking deeply at "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People," Steven Covey's classic, time honored approach to inner fulfillment and outer success. Habit # 1 is to Be Proactive!

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, by Steven Covey, is a self-help classic that outlines seven core principles for personal and professional success. The habits are divided into three stages: private victory of building self-mastery through proactivity, defining goals and prioritizing tasks; public victory of improving relationships through empathy, collaboration and communication; and continuous growth of focusing on personal renewal and lifelong learning. This episode is an overview of this lifechanging work. This is the first in a series of seven episodes that will take a deep dive into each of these highly effective habits and how to apply them in your own life.

Human emotions cover a huge range, from shame and depression to rage and judgement to love, peace and joy. These feelings could be understood to have energetic resonance from low to high. We actually have the power to move up the emotional scale toward more positive and expanded experiences. We'll look at the work of Dr. David R. Hawkins, Fredrick Dodson and Abraham Hicks, all brilliant work that offers us tools for our own emotional evolution and progress. Check out my Map Of Emotional Consciousness here for a visual of these levels of consciousness. -- Join me on⁠ Patreon⁠ Check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ channel, interesting interviews and guided meditations, plus a different format to follow the Spiritual Psikology podcast. -- ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Healing Trauma, my new 10 session course is available now!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 10 Sessions to bring the wounded parts of ourself out of suffering and into

What we focus grows, and what we avoid stays frozen. We talk about "paying attention." This payment is valuable. Valuing our attention, becoming mindful of what we are focusing on is a potent tool for self transformation; just by becoming aware. It is no secret that we live in a time of great distraction. Renee talks about how distraction is often rooted in a particular form of suffering and how the principles underlying the 12 Steps can help us find the hope and power we need to create positive, constructive change in our lives.

What is we choose or at least agree to the circumstances of our life as part of our soul's journey? What if the Universe is a schoolhouse for our evolution? Asking the question, "What is my soul trying to learn here?" can move us from victim perspective into a place of empowerment and even hero of our own life experiences. Part 3 of a 4 part series exploring the book, "The Four Questions: A Pathway to Inner Peace," by Vedic monk and spiritual guide, Vaisesika Dasa.

Service is the secret sauce to joy, connection and fulfillment. This is the second in my four part series looking deeply at the book, "The Four Questions: A Pathway to Inner Peace," by monk and spiritual guide Vaisesika Dasa. Asking these simple questions offers an outline for clarity, guidance, and self inquiry.  Join me on an exploration of ancient Vedic wisdom, as we bring curiosity to our personal growth through this potent question, "How can I be of service?" to others, to God and to myself. -- Check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ channel, interesting interviews and guided meditations, plus a different format to follow the Spiritual Psikology podcast. -- ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Healing Trauma, my new 10 session course is available now!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 10 Sessions to bring the wounded parts of ourself out of suffering and into the peace, power & compassion of present time. This is a profoundly healing and

Asking the right questions, gets us the answers we really seek. In his book, "The Four Questions: A Pathway to Inner Peace," monk and spiritual guide Vaisesika Dasa provides a simple outline we can all use for greater clarity and self inquiry.  The first question, "What is my purpose?" can be asked on many levels. We can ask this potent question in the present moment, in our day, or week, or on a soul level for this lifetime. We can also ask, "What is my purpose?" in different areas of out life; in relationships, in work, with our health.   Join me on an exploration of ancient Vedic wisdom, as we grow in self inquiry and curiosity about this central life question, "What is my purpose?" -- Check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ channel, interesting interviews and guided meditations, plus a different format to follow the Spiritual Psikology podcast. -- ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Healing Trauma, my new 10 session course is available now!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

The only constant in life is change. How we navigate change determines the quality of our life experience. Although we often can't control or stop change, we can align ourselves with it. When we are aligned with the deeper wisdom and flow of life, we find more peace, happiness and fulfillment. Everything is in some form of flux or motion. When we look deeply, we discover cycles within all change that we can align with. All things are created, maintained and then dissolve. Knowing where any part of our life is in this cycle can help us in this alignment with universal flow and our own highest good.

There is a difference between loss and grief. Not all loss is tragic or painful. In fact, a life well lived leads to a good death and when we live deeply and authentically in our relationships, we can have happy endings in unexpected places. -- Here's a link to my YouTube video, "Making Sense Of Murder: The Loss Of Friend And Intuitive Guide Susan Morgan," an interview with acclaimed intuitive and psychic Deb Mangelus, mentioned in this episode. Check out the rest of my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ channel, interesting interviews and guided meditations, plus a different format to follow the Spiritual Psikology podcast. -- ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Healing Trauma, my new 10 session course is available now!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 10 Sessions to bring the wounded parts of ourself out of suffering and into the peace, power & compassion of present time. This is a profoundly healing and transformative course that offers y

Reclaiming and integrating all of who we are is vital to inner health and wholeness. Renee talks about Ketamine use and abuse, the role of psychedelics in healing and about soul retrieval. Soul retrieval is one of the most empowering processes in Spiritual Psikology and Shamanism. -- Join my new Opendoor Community on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ! Live Q&A, Livestreaming events, personal growth challenges, access to groups, workshops and more to come. I can't wait to connect with you! J⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠oin for FREE now⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. -- Check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ channel, interesting interviews and guided meditations, plus a different format to follow the Spiritual Psikology podcast. -- ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Healing Trauma, my new 10 session course is available now!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 10 Sessions to bring the wounded parts of ourself out of suffering and into the peace, power & compassion of present time. This is a pro

The only constant in life is change. How we align with or resist this constant change has a lot to do with our experience. Often we must be willing to accept radical change in order to move forward in an authentic, fulfilling way. When we try to avoid the natural flow, we suffer. When we "go with the flow," even into radical change, we are free. -- Join my new Opendoor Community on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ! Live Q&A, Livestreaming events, personal growth challenges, access to groups, workshops and more to come. I can't wait to connect with you! J⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠oin for FREE now⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. -- Check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ channel, interesting interviews and guided meditations, plus a different format to follow the Spiritual Psikology podcast. -- ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Healing Trauma, my new 10 session course is available now!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 10 Sessions to bring the wounded parts of ourself out of suffering and in