Dr. Caroline Leaf Podcast

If you've ever felt trapped, confused, or emotionally drained by someone who constantly makes everything about them—this episode is for you.I'm joined by world-renowned narcissism expert Dr. Ramani Durvasula to explore the reality of narcissistic relationships and how to recover from their impact. We talk about:What narcissism really is (and isn’t)The signs of emotional abuse most people overlookWhy reclaiming your identity requires radical acceptanceWhat healing actually looks like — with or without going no-contactWhy some people stay — and how to survive if you doHow parents can navigate narcissistic adult childrenThe role of love bombing, guilt, and controlWhat makes healing harder — and how to make it easierDr. Ramani breaks down practical ways to protect your peace, build emotional clarity, and rebuild your self-worth.

Dating today feels like emotional gymnastics — and no one knows that better than Talia, a dating expert and podcast host who went on 150 dates in one year. In this episode, I sit down with Talia to unpack what she learned, how she stayed grounded, and why modern dating can be so mentally exhausting.We talk about:The neuroscience of dating and attachment stylesHow to build resilience after rejectionDating app burnoutWhat “slow burn chemistry” actually meansThe role of neuroplasticity in healing unhealthy patternsWhy self-compassion might be your strongest dating toolTalia also shares daily practices, mindset shifts, and practical advice that will help anyone — whether you’re new to dating, starting over, or just tired of the same dead-end patterns.This conversation will change how you think about dating, love, and your brain.

 In this episode, I explore what happens in a man’s mind when he becomes a father—and why so many dads carry their emotional weight in silence.From new dads to empty-nesters, the mental and emotional load of fatherhood is real—but rarely named. I’ll walk you through the neuroscience of paternal bonding, stress regulation, identity shifts, and inherited emotional silence. This is not just a tribute to dads—it’s a call to see them, support them, and understand them through the lens of brain science and mental health.I also sit down with my husband, Mac Leaf, for a candid conversation about his experience as a father—and what he wishes more people knew.This is the episode every dad, partner, son, and supporter of fatherhood needs to hear.

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What’s your stress language—and how is it secretly shaping your thoughts, reactions, and health? In this transformative episode of The Dr. Leaf Show, Dr. Caroline Leaf breaks down the six main “stress languages”—the hidden emotional patterns that kick in when life gets overwhelming: the Fighter, Freezer, Fixer, Fleer, Suppressor, and Pleaser.Unlike love languages, stress languages reveal how your brain and body respond to pressure, conflict, and fear. Are you shutting down? Fixing everyone’s problems but your own? Or smiling while silently screaming inside?Dr. Leaf explains the neuroscience behind stress, how to tell the difference between positive and toxic stress, and how to retrain your brain using the proven 5-step Neurocycle method. You’ll walk away with powerful insights and practical tools to decode your own stress responses—and reclaim peace and clarity in the middle of chaos.✨ BONUS: Pre-order Dr. Leaf’s new book Help in a Hurry at www.helpinahur

What if emotional resilience is the ultimate biohack?In this candid and high-impact episode, Dave Asprey—father of biohacking and founder of Bulletproof—joins Dr. Leaf for a mind-expanding conversation on anxiety, forgiveness, neurofeedback, and what it really takes to reset your nervous system. From decoding the three types of anxiety to unpacking forgiveness as the “fifth F-word,” Dave shares practical strategies and deeply personal moments, including how he navigated public betrayal and burnout while staying grounded in his purpose.Together, they explore the intersection of brain science, trauma healing, and high performance—making space for “weird brains,” somatic awareness, and efficient transformation that doesn’t require suffering.If you're ready to stop performing wellness and start embodying resilience, this episode is your reset ritual.Pre-order my new book here and get over $900 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://helpinahurrybook.com/Get Dave's

What if the apology you’re waiting for never comes?In this powerful episode, Dr. Caroline Leaf unpacks how to move on when someone never acknowledges the pain they caused. You’ll learn how unresolved hurt affects your brain and body—and how to rewire your healing from the inside out. Backed by neuroscience, packed with practical tools, and grounded in emotional truth, this episode will help you let go of resentment, reclaim your power, and find peace—whether or not you ever hear “I’m sorry.”

In this episode, I unpack one of life's hardest decisions: when to stay and work through challenges—and when it’s time to move on for the sake of your mental and emotional health.You'll learn how to tune into the signals your mind and body are sending you, recognize when discomfort leads to growth versus harm, and use simple mind-management tools from my new book Help in a Hurry to build clarity and resilience.Key highlights:How to tell the difference between growth pain and toxic stressThe role of neuroplasticity in healing after hard decisionsSimple mindset shifts to help you move forward with confidenceReflective questions to guide your next right stepYou are not stuck. You are not powerless. Your mind holds the wisdom you need to choose your next chapter.Pre-order my new book here and get over $900 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://helpinahurrybook.com/SPONSORS MAKING THIS SHOW POSSIBLE:Pique Tea: If you’re tired of feeling depleted and want to finally nourish

In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with my dear friend and transformational life coach, Craig Siegel, to explore what it truly means to reinvent your mind and your life.Craig shares his powerful personal story — from the high-pressure world of Wall Street to becoming a bestselling author and thought leader — and how rewiring his own mindset through intentional neuroplasticity led him to a more meaningful, purpose-driven life.Together, we unpack the science and strategy behind reinvention, mindset shifts, and conscious connection — and how you can apply these tools to build authentic relationships, overcome imposter syndrome, and unlock mental resiliencefor personal and professional growth.

Description: Ever wonder if that gut feeling is fear or intuition? In this episode, I break down how to tell the difference—and how to calm anxiety so you can hear your inner wisdom clearly.You’ll learn:1. The science behind anxiety and intuition2. Why anxiety stems from fear, past experiences, and “what-if” thinking3. How intuition is actually a signal from your nonconscious mind rooted in wisdom4. Key ways to distinguish between a fearful spiral and an intuitive nudge5. Quick, practical tools to calm anxiety and tune into your inner guidancePre-order my new book here and get over $900 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://helpinahurrybook.com/Sponsors making this episode possible:BIOPTIMIZERS MAGNESIUM BREAKTHROUGH: Nourish your brain and body with Magnesium Breakthrough now. For an exclusive offer go to bioptimizers.com/drleaf and use promo code DRLEAF10 during checkout to save 10 percent. BRANCH BASICS: Right now, our listeners get 15% off the Premium Starter Kit by us

Pre-order my new book here and get over $900 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://helpinahurrybook.com/Description: Do you feel exhausted even after a whole night’s sleep or a seemingly restful weekend? You might unknowingly be caught in mindless habits slowly wearing you down. In this episode, Jessica breaks down five common, sneaky habits that drain your mental and physical energy—from chaotic multitasking to overstimulation from tech and shallow breathing. These aren’t just bad habits—they’re signs your mind is running on empty.Tune in to learn:Why your messy desk might be stressing you out more than you realizeHow "milkshake multitasking" scrambles your focusThe surprising science behind why doing nothing is actually doing something powerfulSimple tools like "thinker moments" and deep breathing to reboot your mind and restore energyThese quick neuroscience-backed tips will help you stop the spiral of overwhelm, create calm, and start feeling like yourse

Pre-order my new book here and get over $900 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://helpinahurrybook.com/Description: Dopamine isn’t just the “feel-good” chemical—it’s your brain’s motivation engine. In this episode, I unpack the real science behind dopamine, debunk common myths, and reveal how modern life hijacks your brain’s reward system. Learn how to take back control using the Neurocycle method and start rewiring your brain for focus, drive, and long-term fulfillment. It’s not about detoxing dopamine—it’s about resetting it, training your mind to crave what truly serves you.Sponsors making this episode possible:BiOptimizers Magnesium Breakthrough: Nourish your brain and body with Magnesium Breakthrough now. For an exclusive offer, go to bioptimizers.com/drleaf and use promo code DRLEAF10 during checkout to save 10 percent. 

Pre-order my new book here and get over $400 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://a.co/d/484tmSeIn this insightful episode I sit down with Jeff Krasno, author of Good Stress: The Health Benefits of Doing Hard Things. Jeff shares his personal journey from a diabetes diagnosis to reclaiming health through embracing life's challenges. We delve into the concept of 'good stress'—how practices like fasting, cold exposure, and engaging in difficult conversations can enhance physiological, psychological, and social well-being. Jeff also discusses the evolutionary mismatch between our ancestors' stressors and today's comforts, offering practical strategies to harness stress for growth and resilience. Tune in to discover how doing hard things can lead to a healthier, more vibrant life!Get Jeff's book here: https://onecommune.mykajabi.com/goodstressbook?preview_theme_id=2159005940Sponsors making this episode possible: ZOCDOC: Stop putting off those doctors’ appointments an

Pre-order my new book here: https://a.co/d/484tmSeAre FOBO (Fear of Better Options) and FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) running your life? The constant chase for the “best” choice can leave you mentally drained, stuck in decision paralysis, and dissatisfied—even when you do decide. In this episode, we break down Barry Schwartz’s Paradox of Choice and uncover the hidden mental costs of overchoice. Learn four powerful strategies—including pre-deciding, setting digital boundaries, and using the Neurocycle—to clear the chaos, simplify decisions, and take back control of your mind. Tune in and start thinking deeply, living intentionally, and hacking your brain for a better life!Sponsors making this episode possible:PUORI: Right now you get an amazing 20% off their health products, or if you choose their already discounted subscription, you get almost a third off the price! Available when you visit my exclusive URL Puori.com/DRLEAFand use my promo code DRLEAF, or save 20% off when you make a one-time pur

Pre-order my new book here: https://www.amazon.com/Help-Hurry-Finding-Overwhelmed-Stressed/dp/0801093260/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.XDyjiWpiM9uAO4e1rDROIg.2fzlEXTA_MwJYfZP5WYga80TJaLfUfl2Z2lXGclynhA&qid=1738788667&sr=8-1What if a few mindset shifts could change everything? In this episode, I’m sharing 7 life-changing truths that can transform the way you think, feel, and interact with the world. From managing expectations without resentment to setting healthy boundaries, embracing rest, and making kindness your superpower—these insights will help you rewire your mind for more peace, wisdom, and resilience.Sponsors making this episode possible:AG1: AG1 is offering new subscribers a FREE $76 gift when you sign up. You'll get a Welcome Kit, a bottle of D3K2 AND 5 free travel packs in your first box. So make sure to check out DrinkAG1.com/mentalmess to get this offer! Ancient Nutrition: Ancient Nutrition is offering 25% off your first order when

Pre-order my new book here: https://www.amazon.com/Help-Hurry-Finding-Overwhelmed-Stressed/dp/0801093260/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.XDyjiWpiM9uAO4e1rDROIg.2fzlEXTA_MwJYfZP5WYga80TJaLfUfl2Z2lXGclynhA&qid=1738788667&sr=8-1Want to hack your brain for a better life? In this episode, we’re diving into five science-backed psychological "cheat codes" that can help you build better connections, stop overthinking, and boost confidence—all with the power of neuroscience. From the magic of asking for favors to the game-changing 3-second eye contact rule, these simple tricks are backed by your brain’s wiring. Tune in to learn how to make your mind work for you instead of against you!Sponsors making this episode possible:PUORI: Right now you get an amazing 20% off their health products, or if you choose their already discounted subscription, you get almost a third off the price! Available when you visit my exclusive URL Puori.com/DRLEAFand use my promo co