Ted In Your Head

According to the National Institutes for Health, most women are completely uninformed or only had some knowledge of the menopause before the age of 40. Yet, this is a stage of life that impacts both women and the men in their lives. One study found that 73% of women blame menopause for their marriage breakdown. In this episode, I have an informative, uninhibited and honest discussion about this life transition with Sandra Villafan, a Professional Certified Coach. Sandra is finishing her Master’s in Public Health and is writing her thesis on the subject of menopause. This is a must-listen for any women who feel that they are on the journey of perimenopause/menopause and want to know more. This should also be listened to by the men in their lives. Please share this episode with those you feel may benefit from this information. tedinyourhead.com

Scary witches, goblins, ghosts and ghouls! It’s Halloween time! But you know what’s really scary? CHANGE! Not only that, but it can be hard because there is always a dark side of change and that’s the scary part. Change is scary because a large part of our mind does not want to change. In this episode, I talk about the meaning of Halloween and uses the dark part of the year as a metaphor for the scary part of change. Listen to this episode so that you can take off that mask you’ve been wearing for so long and let everyone see the true vision of who you can be. tedinyourhead.com

Scary witches, goblins, ghosts and ghouls! It’s Halloween time! But you know what’s really scary? CHANGE! Not only that, but it can be hard because there is always a dark side of change and that’s the scary part. Change is scary because a large part of our mind does not want to change. In this episode, I talk about the meaning of Halloween and uses the dark part of the year as a metaphor for the scary part of change. Listen to this episode so that you can take off that mask you’ve been wearing for so long and let everyone see the true vision of who you can be. tedinyourhead.com

Extreme gratitude is being grateful for everything you can possibly be grateful for. Gratitude is important because it enhances mental and physical well-being. Gratitude makes relationships better. Gratitude promotes a more positive outlook on life. Gratitude can improve mental health by reducing stress and increasing happiness. Gratitude can improve physical health through better sleep and a stronger immune system. Imagine what Extreme Gratitude can do for you! In this episode, Ted shares three simple and powerful steps to begin to have all the benefits of extreme gratitude. A life of gratitude is only one thought away. tedinyourhead.com

Has it been pointed out to you that you apologize too much? Do you feel that asking for what you need or want is an imposition on others? Do you feel that you need to justify your existence? It’s possible to find ourselves with the feeling that we need to apologize for who we are because we feel bad about ourselves. It’s possible for some people to get to the point where they feel they need to apologize just for being alive. And that’s a sad state of affairs. In this powerful episode, Ted discusses how to cultivate the most powerful belief: I Belong Here. It’s good that I’m alive. It’s ok that I’m not perfect. It’s ok that I make mistakes. I DON’T NEED TO APOLOGIZE FOR BEING HUMAN. Each of us has been given the gift of life and all that comes with living. Yet so often, we fail to see the beauty within us and within out us. Need a shot of inspiration? Check out this awesome episode of the Ted in Your Head Podcast. tedinyourhead.com

There is mass hypnosis happening now due to the widespread consumption of social media, the prevalence of social media addiction, and the blurring of lines between social media and news information. The concept of social media hypnosis refers to the trance-like state induced by social media platforms. Just like traditional print and television advertising, this state can be used to bypass conscious thought for marketing, influence and for manipulation. This can often lead to negative outcomes like addiction, anxiety, and depression by engaging the subconscious mind and its negative patterns of worry, fear, anger and even rage. In this episode, Ted discusses how social media and the inclination of the majority of people in the US to get news from social media is creating mass hypnosis resulting in further division and mental health risks on a nationwide scale. This is an episode you do not want to miss. TedinYourHead.com

Ted discusses the work of Dr. Peter A. Levine, the developer of Somatic Experiencing, as well as the healing that is available when we allow ourselves to be in our bodies in an intentional and present way. There is a great source of wisdom and intelligence for us in our human bodies. If we can connect with and be present to our bodies, we can get information and guidance that can help us not only let go of emotional wounds but guide us in our journey through life. Ted also talks about he helps his clients to release trauma, pain and anxiety his practice by helping his clients re-connect or re-inhabit their bodies in a healing and powerful way. If you have trauma, pain or anxiety, or are interested in the power of the mind body connection, check out this episode! TedinYourHead.com

Life transitions when we are young are fun! We are hopeful, optimistic and energetic. Life transitions when we get older are more difficult, especially the unexpected or unwanted ones. What can we do when the waters of change get rough? How can we navigate life transitions that are difficult, overwhelming, or painful. The fact is that we are designed for these transitions, difficult as they may be. In the episode, Ted shares his own life transition and offers some thoughts as to how we can find our way through the storm and find calmer waters. TedinYourHead.com

We all have a pretty good idea of what we need to be doing to be happy and healthy. And we probably have some behaviors that we know we should stop. In this post, Ted gives you 43 things you should stop doing now. You already know some of them! Check it out. TedinYourHead.com

Out of My Head: July Recap - Dogs, Summer, and Bare feet - Episode 482 Ted in Your Head Podcast Here we are in the dog days of summer...wait…why do we call it that? What’s so great about walking barefoot in the grass? What did the Ted in Your Head episodes in July talk about? These question and more are answered in this episode. TedinYourHead.com

Why should you try hypnotherapy? What will it do for you? Is it safe? How does it work? Is there any risk? For a modality that is so powerful and effective, it’s unfortunate that so many people have so many misperceptions about hypnosis and hypnotherapy. In this episode, Ted explains clearly and simply why hypnotherapy is something you should try. Whether you want to quit smoking, be more confident, let go of bad habits or just take a break from stress or manage anxiety, hypnotherapy can be effective and powerful. Check it out or share with someone you think might benefit. TedinYourHead.com

Ted reads another chapter from his book The Ultimate Guide to Letting Go of Negative and Fear and Loving Life. (available on Amazon.com) Are you trying to get motivated? It’s not going to happen. Motivation is not something you get. Ted tells the funny story of how he figured that out as well as what it takes to be motivated.   Check out this episode for the fundamental necessities to cultivate energy and motivation. TedinYourHead.com

In this episode, Ted reads a chapter from his book The Ultimate Guide to Letting Go of Negative and Fear and Loving Life. (available on Amazon.com) Who are the Mental Mischief Makers? Negativity, Resignation, Cynicism, and Despair to name a few. Once you let them into the house of your mind, they are hard to get rid of and will create trouble while keeping you from your goals, dreams, and desires. Chance are they are already in your house! Time to throw them out and make room for Possibility, Hope and Courage! Ted gives some ideas on how to do that. TedinYourHead.com

In this episode, Ted recaps the Ted in Your Head Podcast episodes for June 2025. He also discusses various observations, obstacles, and obsessions that are in his head that you might identify with. TedinYourHead.com

Are you super productive and proud of it? Do people tell you that you are always busy doing something? Great! However, when you stop, slow down, or pause, do you feel anxiety, fear, or guilt? If so, you may have a hidden fear of slowing down or relaxing. There is a term called Hurry Sickness, which is the feeling of being constantly rushed and stressed. There is also such a thing called Doing Addiction: always needing to be doing something. These are just two reasons why you might feel anxious, guilty and have great resistance to pausing, stopping, resting or relaxing. There are others. In this episode, Ted talks about a fear that you might not even know you have. This fear can control you, push you, and create overwhelm, fatigue and illness. If there is something telling you that if you pause, relax or take time off it might create a catastrophe, then take the time to check out this podcast episode. TedinYourHead.com

You must check out this fascinating and illuminating conversation with Rohini Walker, British-Indian writer and devoted practitioner of soul-body liberation. Rohini moved to the desert of Joshua Tree, California with her husband from London, England in 2013 and began a creative journey of writing, mentoring, and consulting. Rohini co-founded the arts and cultural print periodical Luna Arcana, with Martin Mancha (Ted’s cousin) Ted was inspired to have Rohini as a guest because of her article titled “Committing to Digestion in the Information Age.” In this article from her newsletter Letters from Luna, Rohini discusses the over-consumption of information that has become addictive and normalized. Like going from one all-you-can-eat buffet to another without allowing anything to digest, this incessant consumption of news and social media keeps us distracted, anxious, and uncomfortable in our bodies with “hot heads and cold bellies.” Drawing from Ayurveda, Traditional Chinese Medicine and other indigenous wisdo

Life can be so stressful and so overwhelming, that we might seek to become…numb. There are so many ways that we can numb ourselves to the challenges of life. When this becomes a habit through the various ways available to us, then we can find ourselves stuck, stagnating, hiding out and disengaged from life. In this episode, Ted discusses the wisdom he got from an old Pink Floyd song, and how that is a warning to us all when we want to hide out and numb ourselves to our own lives. TedinYourHead.com

Interview with Dr. Dar Radfar, Board Certified Sleep Apnea Authority Did you know if you're not treated for moderate to severe Sleep Apnea you could lose 12-15 years off your life? Also, a new study from the University of Wisconsin revealed that there is a 5 times higher risk of cancer of any kind if Sleep Apnea is left untreated! In this episode, Ted talks with Dr. Dar Radfar (Dr. Rad) about sleep apnea, its symptoms, causes, and the impact it can have on your physical and mental health. Dr. Rad also discusses home testing for sleep apnea, and different treatment options. If you know that you are not sleeping well, are waking up with a dry mouth, have been told that you snore, and are experiencing drowsiness and a foggy mind during the day, you may have symptoms of sleep apnea. Check out this episode for valuable information and resources that could make a huge difference in your life! TedinYourHead.com

Being alive is a matter of life and death. Life happens daily but death only happens once. However, we tend to avoid the subject of our own mortality, yet, what can be more personal to us? We can’t have a life without a death. In this episode, Ted reflects on the subject of life and death and discusses the questions: Why should we be mindful of death? How can death awareness add to our life? Why do we sometimes carry such existential fear of non-existance? How can we not be afraid of death, our own or that of those we love? Check out this podcast and feel free to comment or review. TedinYourHead.com

In this episode, Ted discusses the desire to take his podcast in a new direction after almost 10 years of the Ted in Your Head Podcast. How to overcome anxiety, how to be more confident, how to let go of worry, these are good topics that Ted have been addressing but now he is asking the question: “How can we live life in a way that allows us to feel excited, inspired, energized and confident in the face of so many changes and challenges? How do we not only avoid falling into negativity and overwhelm, but more importantly, who do we need to be to maintain positivity and keep moving forward? TedinYourHead.com